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Starting Hospice

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Re: Starting Hospice

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Hacker News, thank you for all the links and all the great reading. Now I have to say goodbye. I’m with my wife Bess ( https://bessstillman.substack.com/ ) and my brother Sam, and crying, but it is okay. At the end of Lord of the Rings Gandalf says to the hobbits, "Go in peace! I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil.” And that is how I feel now. Ending prematurely hurts, but all things must end, a…

Thank you for everything.

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He did? I'm surprised to find a quote I'm not familiar with. On what page of which edition did he say this?

Gandalf says this in the movies, not in the book. However the descriptive language is drawn from Frodo's dream in the barrow downs and his experience sailing into west at the end of LOTR. > And then it seemed to him that as in his dream in the house of Bombadil, the grey rain-curtain turned all to silver glass and was rolled back, and he beheld white shores and beyond them a far green country under a swift sunrise.

But "sailing into the west" is not a metaphor for death, Valinor is not a metaphor for heaven (as it's a real place within LOTR world where e.g. Frodo dies). Gandalf's movie quote does not appear to be based on book material.

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I hope this is an appropriate place to ask. Say I am eating well, exercising consistently, getting enough sleep. For a male in his 40s, what are the best bang-for-the-buck ways to detect cancer before it becomes life-threatening?

Talk to your doctor, and ask to be screened for all common cancers. A colonoscopy is in your future (I just had one). Also ask for a Prostate-Specific Antigen (PSA) Test. Also look into the HPV vaccine.

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What a weird time to come across this blog. I went to the dermatologist today for a biopsy. I’m gonna spend the next week obsessing and worrying about it until I get the results.

I wouldn't worry too much, while skin cancer is common, only about 1% of skin cancers are serious (melanoma), and even that has a 95% survival rate if you catch it early.

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My partner died of an internal SCC in their early 40s during the COVID-19 pandemic lockdowns, over a course of 9 months. After the tumor board of the only cancer treatment center both covered by our insurance and willing to take us on refused to pursue anything but standard ovarian chemotherapy (which didn't work at all on ovarian SCC, which we already knew). Because of travel restrictions and the total lack of vacci…

that's a tragic story and I'm sorry for your loss. did you consider taking the medication anyway in defiance of the oncologist?

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Because of valunords comment, I did a review of the literature in Google Scholar, and found there are quite a few small trials of ketogenic diets and fasting on different cancers. It is an active area of research, but the results so far are not amazing looking, mortality rates are about the same. At best, it seems like it might slightly increase the effectiveness of specific existing treatments for a small handful of specific types of solid tumor cancers. It's nothing even close to the 90% cure valunord is claiming- that is a flat out lie.

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Hacker News, thank you for all the links and all the great reading. Now I have to say goodbye. I’m with my wife Bess ( https://bessstillman.substack.com/ ) and my brother Sam, and crying, but it is okay. At the end of Lord of the Rings Gandalf says to the hobbits, "Go in peace! I will not say: do not weep; for not all tears are an evil.” And that is how I feel now. Ending prematurely hurts, but all things must end, a…

I watched your efforts and have tried applying them to my loved one. To be human, to be one with intelligence to figure things out as you have, the digital touch you have made, thank you. Go in peace.
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