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The lack of “managed” Postgres is the only reason we haven’t moved 100% to fly. The idea of having to do my own upgrades by updating the docker container scares me. I have literally never run a stateful service off docker and don’t see the point, thanks to AWS. RDS has been extremely stable and boring. Maybe it’s out together by similar duct tape under the hood but it’s been incredibly solid for nearly a decade acros…
What stops you from using a managed database from a provider who specializes in it? If Fly builds it, it will create another Goliath who tries to eat everything.
The only reason I think we might not be is the selling point is less vendor lock-in, not something managed significantly better. For the most part, the major cloud providers have mature, feature rich product offerings for common use cases like DB, distributed queues, running services, load balancers, etc.