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At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on

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Re: At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on

#101

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For what it's worth, you asserted above that you are not rude, but telling a stranger they sound like a sociopath is generally considered rude. It may genuinely be that you have transcended social norms, but the rest of us haven't, and I'm afraid you're dealing with the rest of us!

Why is this considered rude instead of stating an opinion?

They aren't mutually exclusive—an expressed opinion can also be rude.

Re: At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on

#102
post #21

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You're describing Pascal's wager.

I am not. That wager is about something unverifiable and unprogressable. This is based on biology and science and can become a reliaty. So not even close.

Pascal's wager would be verifiable if, say, someone invented a device like the ones in the Ghostbusters movies. That seems about as promising as freezing yourself after you die in my mind...

Re: At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on

#103
post #49

“All that is mine, beloved and pleasing, will become otherwise and will become separated from me”— Siddhartha Gautama. As a Buddhist we do “contemplation of death” meditation on a regular basis. It involves imagining our last few hours on our deathbed. It is a wonderful exercise to help put things in context. It makes you behave differently towards people you meet, even strangers.

I have spent hours mediating in graveyards. Also helpful is the mediation on the 32 parts of the body to help you loosen your attachment. https://www.imsb.org/contemplating-the-32-parts-of-the-body/

I meditate regularly, but I think this type of exercise is misguided and betrays the body-denying/denigrating bias that can be often found in religious traditions world-wide. It encourages an ignorant attitude towards the body: instead of contemplating the miracles of the muscular system, see it as amorphous flesh. Amplify the spurious association of the skeleton with the malnourished body it resembles, instead of marveling at the ingenious way it serves it's (many) purposes, and so on.

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post #6

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I have not seen a reason to think cryonics will work at all. Even if we actually do find a way to restore frozen near-death people to life, you'd better write a heck of a pitch as to why future humans should spend resources on reviving and healing you. Never mind all the resources being spent on keeping you properly frozen all that time. That's all assuming the company running your freezer doesn't just go belly-up af…

Why would they not want to revive you? How awesome would it be, if we could revive someone who lived around the year 1500, 1000 or even 0? I expect people in the year 3000 (if there are still people around and if they have it relatively good) would see it equally when looking to the year 2000.

> "How awesome would it be, if we could revive someone who lived around the year 1500, 1000 or even 0?"

One or two of them, maybe. Probably the most famous ones.

All of them, including ordinary people like you or I? Not a chance.

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#105
post #6

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I have not seen a reason to think cryonics will work at all. Even if we actually do find a way to restore frozen near-death people to life, you'd better write a heck of a pitch as to why future humans should spend resources on reviving and healing you. Never mind all the resources being spent on keeping you properly frozen all that time. That's all assuming the company running your freezer doesn't just go belly-up af…

So true. Even in the best case scenario if they manage to revive you perpetually, the universe will eventually end and then you'll be there to experience it... For someone who is afraid of dying, I can't think of a worse way to go. To an atheist, uncertainty is the source of all hope.

>To an atheist, uncertainty is the source of all hope.

Isn't that somewhat backward? To an atheist, the certainty that they won't be going to an afterlife seems to be a source of hope, and for the religious person, the idea that they might is the same.

Re: At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on

#106

The nicest bit for me was where he talked about growing old being a privilege and not to lament every grey hair and wrinkle. Puts it in perspective.

As I often say, "Growing old sucks, but it is better than the alternative."* *I can't take credit. I got it from someone else, but I don't remember who.

I’ve heard it ascribed to Oscar Wilde, although according to Whistler he probably stole it from someone himself.

Re: At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on

#107
post #53

Having just turned 31 this hits home. I appreciate the positivity he could find in the twilight of his days. I can't help but feel I may lack the courage to face death the same way. His focus on gratitude really does seem to match what I understand to be the best way to find joy in the often bleak life we find ourselves in. There is almost always someone or something to appreciate in our lives.

How do you know he is not just lying and saying it for the clicks? It could be all appearance. Listen, you want to be like him, it is easy. Just be like Christ or Buddha or Lao Tzu. Liberate yourself from the attachments of the world. That is the only thing death forces us to face, the ultimate attachment, the attachment we have with our body/self/ego.

I prefer to assume people may lie for everything but not for their soon to be happening death. If they fool me, I accept the consequences. The opposite, as in being cynical for even these kind of things, is much scarier and unhealthy for my mental state.

Re: At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on

#108
post #64

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zero vs non-zero of what? If you say the argument is dying now vs dying later, sure, I'll agree.

Zero chance of living VS non zero chance of living. I thought that was a coders forum.

Which one is that forum you're talking about?

If you meant this one, it should be obvious that it's not exclusively about coders. Even if it was, your argument is quite weak if you don't qualify the non zero part a bit more. Zero chance of living how much longer than you would have otherwise? under what conditions? At what cost?

Re: At 31, I have just weeks to live. Here's what I want to pass on

#110
post #49

“All that is mine, beloved and pleasing, will become otherwise and will become separated from me”— Siddhartha Gautama. As a Buddhist we do “contemplation of death” meditation on a regular basis. It involves imagining our last few hours on our deathbed. It is a wonderful exercise to help put things in context. It makes you behave differently towards people you meet, even strangers.

I have spent hours mediating in graveyards. Also helpful is the mediation on the 32 parts of the body to help you loosen your attachment. https://www.imsb.org/contemplating-the-32-parts-of-the-body/

You reminded me of the close of one of my favorite Philosophize This episodes on Authenticity: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GfkJEWnsNy4
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