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It is perfectly OK to only code at work, you can have a life too

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Re: It is perfectly OK to only code at work, you can have a life too

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Many of my friends ended up becoming doctors, PAs, or nurses and medicine is basically all they talk about, especially the doctors. Their phones are overflowing with medical photos and articles. Get two or more of them together and you're not going to discuss anything besides their field. One volunteers for some Doctors Without Boarders type organization, another teaches classes at a university, I think they almost a…

> I think in most fields the top performers are going to be investing significant effort outside work to practice, learn, and improve themselves throughout their career. Agreed. I spend a lot of free time reading about and discussing technology. Occasionally teach, occasionally do some advising. But I rarely have a side project which consumes my time. I guess the equivalent would be a nurse going and taking a shift a…

> I guess the equivalent would be a nurse going and taking a shift at another hospital.

You're looking at the wrong profession. A nurse can't "just" go and start nursing stuff. Programmers are like carpenters - they can just go and start building stuff for themselves, using the same tools and skills they use at work. Except they also have an industry-imposed, medicine-style continued learning requirement due to how fast the field keeps changing.

Re: It is perfectly OK to only code at work, you can have a life too

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I think this goes deeper than coding, we live in a world of “Give it you’re all”, but really the only thing we should be giving it all for is what makes us happy. Over the last 25 years of coding, I’ve always stuck to the 9-5 (ish), 5 days a weeks. I’m not rich, but do alright and I’m fairly happy. I actually have time to do things that are not coding outside of work. The world needs driven people that give it their…

I'd say that the world does need driven people. The dayjob is just not usually the thing that deserves that drive.

Re: It is perfectly OK to only code at work, you can have a life too

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Yeah. It's also perfectly OK to code outside of work. It's still "having a life" but it's my life and therefore my choice.

Obviously. But no one is being pressured to not code at home by their peers and employers.

> Obviously. But no one is being pressured to not code at home by their peers and employers.

Except everyone is. The people calling us "nerds" having "no life" only recently shut up, and that's because they see how much money this occupation nets and now are silently jealous. But if some of them asks you "what are you up to this weekend", and you say "coding $sideproject", they'll look at you weird.

That's all on top of the social pressure to "not be on the computer so much".

Re: It is perfectly OK to only code at work, you can have a life too

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Yes. It is ok. I hate that we've made it a norm to expect everyone to have the same hobby -- exactly the thing you do at work, and it better damn well be a hobby that you can monetize.

Some people code and live on the MeetUp circuit when they're not coding. I do those things on rare occasion, but I've got a wife, a small child, and other hobbies.

I like that this article reminds all of us to not normalize overwork.

That said, it seems anti-hustle is becoming the new hussle, and yes, it's ok to code on your own as well if you enjoy it, want to learn, etc. You just shouldn't HAVE to.

Re: It is perfectly OK to only code at work, you can have a life too

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FWIW, I make money hacking on Arduino :-)

What do you do, if you don’t mind me asking?

Same as any other type of programming: write code for people who can't.
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