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Second link points out a problem I was afraid of existing - big providers just stump on personal email servers. > Hotmail is typically deleting all emails that I am sending. ... Monopolists like gmail.com won't accept any messages sent from my mail server.
I feel like I'm making this comment once a week on HN but I host my own email and I haven't had any major issue so far with "big email". The main caveat is that you will have a very hard time getting your email accepted if it comes from a home connection IP range instead of some host provider but if you do have a dedicated server and follow the guidelines (SMTPS, DKIM, SPF etc...) it just works, at least in my experi…
I've been removed for now from their lists... but they tend to re-add IPs from previous ranges for no reason.