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They are being multiplied, as in drawing a rectangle with one side equal to each number. There's no 'first' and 'second'; the idea that one is a count and the other being copied shows a fundamental misconstruction.
I don't really support the pedantry that's going on in the grading, but I'm not sure I agree with you. To the observer looking at a non-moving rectangle, "length" and "width" are not interchangable. In the same way, there are indeed a "first" and "second" by simple definition of the way English/math notation work (in other words, "left" and "right".) The student was asked to use the "repeated addition strategy" and a…
Math is important. Teaching some witchcraft-inspired rote math is destructive to real learning.
And rectangles exist regardless of how you view them. If I approach your desk and see the rectangle from the side, its the same rectangle. Even from a corner. Even in a mirror, its the same rectangle.