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Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

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Re: Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

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I have no way of knowing whether your project is destined for failure. But to me that would be almost irrelevant - if I had a boss who humiliated people (publicly or privately), I'd be looking for work elsewhere. I wouldn't have put up with that kind of abuse even from Steve Jobs himself.

I have read so many stories of tough personalities like this who chew out their people publicly, yet in the process achieve greatness for themselves, their teams, and their products. I supposed I would have accepted this if I were working for Steve Jobs or Elon Musk or Steve Ballmer, so I keep wondering if I should just suck it up and grind on. But coding-to-vision rather than coding-to-design/spec seems so inefficie…

I'd agree with parent, don't put up with humiliation; however, I don't necessarily consider harsh criticism humiliation: it depends.

That said, about your coding-to-vision thing: it sounds like he's just unable to dedicate the time to define the UX in detail. That's understandable, as a manager it's essential to delegate.

However, defining the product (scope, features, UX, …) is a core part of the business, and needs involvement from management (business strategy), customers/salespeople (market fit: have you talked to your customers yet?), designers and coders.

So, maybe do as much as you can for him (on paper or whatever), and when you're ready present the screens to him in a quick 10 minutes briefing.

If he still feels like you're wasting everybody's time, make him a business case based on past experience; ie. "Defining the UI would've cost us _this_ much in time, charging ahead has cost us _this_ much in time: we're losing money and wasting time."

If he still won't see the light, it's pretty much doomed.

Re: Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

#13
Maybe, maybe not.

I worked with a guy as a contractor where he swears he was a Steve Jobs. Realistically, all he was is a guy with lots of ideas and no follow thru. So he wasn't a Steve Jobs at all and most all his visions totally violated good design principles. When I would point that out he would say because his thoughts were visionary and not yet known.

Yea, and I fart unicorns dancing and rainbows.

In the end, you have to evaluate for yourself, but in general if people don't have a loyal following, but expect that type of respect they are no Steve jobs. I have had some AMAZING leaders, and they inspired us to do great things. They would never spend only 4 hours on a project they believed in, and they would expect more from us. I am not saying you should quit tomorrow, but I personally refuse to help feed anyones ego like this.

And I am sorry, the idea of just doing it without getting some design guidance seems really stupid. I know the stuff we read about Jobs says he didn't need mock ups etc, but I totally think that is BS. He was a smart ass guy who likely had tons of mock ups before he ever said go to the next step. Reading his book, he commissioned projects and prototypes that showed design but weren't yet functional (IIRC), so no that isn't a Jobs type mentality, that is a God mentality and is just idiotic.

BTW no real leader publicly humiliates his team, it is counter productive. Yes some great visionaries have done it, but in todays world we know that is a bad idea and to nurture not humiliate people, so its just BS. BUT that doesn't mean you don't push them hard (which can be a fine line) and demand better from everyone.

Re: Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

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Maybe, maybe not. I worked with a guy as a contractor where he swears he was a Steve Jobs. Realistically, all he was is a guy with lots of ideas and no follow thru. So he wasn't a Steve Jobs at all and most all his visions totally violated good design principles. When I would point that out he would say because his thoughts were visionary and not yet known. Yea, and I fart unicorns dancing and rainbows. In the end, y…

"Idea guys" are mostly useless: the people that want credit for "thinking of something" and kick back while everyone else works. More often than not, they're deluded and "in love" with "their" "great" ideas that deny reality in high-def cognitive dissonance. (They're usually wantrepreneurs or enterprise busywork titles.)

What set SJ apart was positive value (being right more often than not, building people up to produce better work products than they thought the could, a determined direction, actual vision) on balance outweighing negative traits (histrionic tantrums, treating employees like shit, generally acting like an asshole).

A cautionary note: If someone is going to play the eccentric jerk role, they'd better be actually right nearly always and bring metric fucktons of net positive value by the containership-full to the business, staff, customers, partners and other stakeholders.

Re: Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

#15
I've had to deal with this exact situation in the past, and I went through the same rationale.

My experience: you wind up constantly iterating, hoping for small "wins" - where the expectations of your PM matches something you've produced. But these are far and few in-between.

You need world-class people who've lead projects to save and push things forward. The success of the project depends on whether you have someone on the team who's willing to stand up and push their own vision, and whether your PM is willing to budge. You WILL have to do mockups to some fidelity, just realize that your PM won't appreciate the work and the complexity that goes into it.

Re: Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

#16
How can a Project Manager boss around the requirements and judge the implementation - that is a job of a Product Manager and Dev or Design managers? Project Managers should mostly focus on the team finishing projects on time - like an Agile coach.

Re: Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

#18
>Is this project destined for failure?

Probably. You should probably have a heart to heart with this guy and tell him how you feel without evasions or minced words.

In the end you're a professional, and professionals don't need to tolerate bad behavior on the part of an employer.

Re: Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

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I had similar experience, however in my case I built what my boss wanted. And he was happy. I managed this not by magic, but the beginning of my story looked strikingly similar to yours. And, of course, the project didn't fail.

So yeah, his method is not _that_ wrong. But there's a catch: in the beginning he was really interesting in pico-iterations. So not only I was doing, but every hour or so we were discussing what the screen looked like, going to the lengths of adding fake buttons that did not do anything, but helped to reason about the application.

After few years (you read it right), we no longer needed to talk a lot about what the company needed. Usually he would point to a problem to be solved, what he would like to see, and the development team managed to fill the gaps.

More recently, in another company with another boss, at a certain point she appraised the team for not really having to fill the gaps of understanding for the team: she spit a vision and we do it in our way. Every iteration she validates it, and of course ask for changes. Pretty average.

I think the real problem in your case is the attitude : public scolding and humiliation. For this, I have two alternatives.

If you are vested with stocks or somehow protected by some strong contract, and believe in the idea, the solution is to bark back. Abusive behavior are always multiplied by lack of balance and checks.

If you are just a developer, with zero personal benefits than compensation, the solution to your problem is quitting. Suddenly. Even if you do not have another job in sight.

The reason of this sudden quit is to ensure you halt the damage to you well being while staying in this company. The damage is and will be there: days you don't feel like working, arriving very late and leaving very soon, avoid opportunities, apathetic feedback when approached by people etc etc. In the right intensity, even depression. (well if you're in US you might want to actually get depressed and ask for compensation in court. Probably will give you more money).

Good luck.

Re: Ask HN: Boss with Steve Jobs Complex

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post #19

I had similar experience, however in my case I built what my boss wanted. And he was happy. I managed this not by magic, but the beginning of my story looked strikingly similar to yours. And, of course, the project didn't fail. So yeah, his method is not _that_ wrong. But there's a catch: in the beginning he was really interesting in pico-iterations. So not only I was doing, but every hour or so we were discussing wh…

Thank you for your thoughts. I think pico-iterations would be wonderful, and that is the big problem -- we meet twice a week (he has dedicated 4hrs a week and sometimes not even that.) Way too much time goes by before we test whether the build-out matches the vision. This makes it more disheartening because there is often so much wasted work.

However, I'm glad this worked out well for you -- I am going to try to split the 4hours more evenly, perhaps into at-least a daily review. Part of the problem is he seems to think we are all wrong in requiring all these reviews, rather we should simply implement the vision rather than just talking about it over and over.

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