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Can Classic Moral Stories Promote Honesty in Children? [pdf]

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#11
>During the game, children were left alone for 1 min and told not to cheat by peeking at the toy. Because of the highly tempting nature of the situation, most children were expected to cheat (e.g., Talwar & Lee, 2002). Before confronting them with the question of whether they had cheated, an experimenter read one of three moral stories or a control story to each child.

It would have been interesting if they had another group where they primed the children with the story before walking out of the room. Test to see how the various stories effect the decision to cheat, not just the honesty after the fact.

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#13
The boy who cried the wolf is not a good selection imho. In it the boy lies just for fun, not to save his own skin, which is what the children in the experiment were trying to do by lying. In contrast George Washington knows the consequence of not lying (possible retribution from his father), yet chooses to do the right thing by sticking to truth.

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As a parent, this is a really interesting issue for me. In particular, I have been really disappointed and shocked with the extent to which cheating is tolerated in undergraduate schools in the U.S. I'm not naïve enough to believe that this is anything new (http://www.nytimes.com/2012/09/15/opinion/the-long-legacy-of... - in 1957, 40% of Harvard students admitted to cheating), but I think that the tools parents have at their disposal to inculcate honesty in their children are fewer in number these days.

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#16
It has been long known that punishment and reward are ineffective for interpersonal influence (e.g., see French and Raven's "The bases of social power" from 1959). Fear is a big factor in children lying. And the nasty side effect of fear is that it leads to repressions of natural inclinations, and eventually a part of the true self becomes suppressed, and a false self becomes a big part of the character. You can see this in the endemic existence of narcissistic character traits in our society.

While studying these topics, the most surprising realization for me was that moral indoctrination teaches children sadistic and masochistic behavior, which then manifests in adulthood as vectors of moral indoctrination towards their children (besides other undesirable behavior in society), and the cycle continues.

Accepting a child for who they are, and not trying to influence them into what the parent wants them to be, goes a long way towards making an honest child.

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post #17

Probably a rather geeky thing to say but Star Trek TNG promoted honesty, morality and a strong sense of ethics to me. That IMHO is no different to classic moral stories as the basic premise is the same in some episodes.

Yes, it is a rather geeky thing to say.

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post #17

Probably a rather geeky thing to say but Star Trek TNG promoted honesty, morality and a strong sense of ethics to me. That IMHO is no different to classic moral stories as the basic premise is the same in some episodes.

This is a wonderful point. Star Trek, particularly TNG, has always had some very strongly moral characters. Picard, obviously, but also Sisko in DS9.

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#20
post #17

Probably a rather geeky thing to say but Star Trek TNG promoted honesty, morality and a strong sense of ethics to me. That IMHO is no different to classic moral stories as the basic premise is the same in some episodes.

Agreed.
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