I find human opinion fascinating, and look forward to the glorious future when we can do better than up/down arrows. Looking at a site like Rotten Tomatoes, where the metric is "professional reviewer thought thing was at least decent" and seeing that there is surprisingly little agreement even on such a simple metric (even a terrible movie, like Season Of The Witch, has a 10 so 10% of the reviews like it; even a grea…
Not everyone is going to like the thing you made, and that’s okay
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#12"Most people are focused on themselves. So whatever bad interaction you have with them, is mostly a reflection of them, instead of a reflection of you."
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#14* There are people who love you because your application is changing their life
* There are people who gives you pertinent feedback.
* There are people who just don't get it and are suggesting core modifications.
I often ignore the last kind of people because I have a principal view on how I want things to be and making something should be about that. You cannot please everyone and you should focus on pleasing you first.
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Not everybody has the ability to make something new. That ability is powerful, empowering, and affirming. I believe that if someone, by virtue of creating something that didn't exist before, ended up feeling better about themselves, then frankly, that's PLENTY worthwhile enough. We need MORE people who feel good about themselves in this world, not less.
That, my friend, is where Wil is coming from.
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#16I find human opinion fascinating, and look forward to the glorious future when we can do better than up/down arrows. Looking at a site like Rotten Tomatoes, where the metric is "professional reviewer thought thing was at least decent" and seeing that there is surprisingly little agreement even on such a simple metric (even a terrible movie, like Season Of The Witch, has a 10 so 10% of the reviews like it; even a grea…
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#17Most programmers are quick to pigeonhole you and what you say. Pay attention to their conclusions and note how careful they are(n't) about gathering enough info to arrive at those conclusions. Look for signs to see if they are skeptical of their own mental models.
This is how to pick who you should work with.
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#18Bill Gates did the same thing, he must got off on that.
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#19You should also remember that anybody giving you a negative reaction might just be having a bad day for totally different factors. This is especially true on social media, where it's so easy to blow off some steam by writing a snarky remark without thinking about how it's going to be interpreted. So whenever someone isn't very nice with me, I prefer to assume that they're a nice person who just happens to have bumped…
Nice persons tend to apologise, if they don't apologise they are probably arseholes.
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#20I find human opinion fascinating, and look forward to the glorious future when we can do better than up/down arrows. Looking at a site like Rotten Tomatoes, where the metric is "professional reviewer thought thing was at least decent" and seeing that there is surprisingly little agreement even on such a simple metric (even a terrible movie, like Season Of The Witch, has a 10 so 10% of the reviews like it; even a grea…
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