I can't be the only one that absolutely despises infinitely scrolling lists, right?
Depends, infinite scrolling can be and has been done right [0], but it's really not the focus of the feature -- it's a product. [0] http://warpspire.com/experiments/history-api/
Have you ever tried to click the links in Facebook below your news feed?
Why is it that everyone who implements automatic infinite scroll shoves it into a context where there's stuff beneath it on the page, making that content completely inaccessible?