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I think the author agrees, just that it's a phrasing problem
Author here! Yup exactly! I don't mind that it's telling me things (well, I do, but that's another post), I just want it to tell me _why_ instead of giving me a weak suggestion with no context so I can make a judgement on how to proceed. Feels like a passive aggressive mom telling you "Maybe try on another outfit" when what she really means is "I think your shirt is horrific and I can't be seen with you in it."
I absolutely hate these types of UIs. I can't stress enough how much revulsion I feel towards this kind of bullshit.
And we are not even talking yet about the "screen vs buttons in a car" problem.