Helping, in Rogaway’s sense, means refusing both neutrality and despair. Collapse is not an excuse for nihilism; there are still objective ways to help, even if they’re costly and uncertain. That looks like rejecting work that accelerates surveillance, extraction, or environmental damage; pushing back inside institutions; redirecting skills toward public-interest, climate, or civic work; and engaging politically rath…
Helping someone who refuses to deal with the underlying behaviors causing the real problem is just wasting energy better spent on other things.
Taken to an extreme, it’s being a martyr.