The part of seeing "You still need to decide what’s worth remembering" as friction I strongly disagree with.
That is a very important part of the learning process and IMO should not be automated. It is difficult because learning is difficult, but if you kill that you also kill the spirit of self-learning!
And not mentioned in the article, but I think the most important factor is that everyone in the SRS niche knows Anki, and despite Anki faults, everyone has put the effort to learn how to use it, got used to it, found a good-enough workflow, and have zero incentive to move to a more expensive alternative even if it is better.