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Anything more innovative happened since (honestly curious)?
You can apparently do 100gbit/sec on a single thread over ethernet with io uring.
I keep watching and trying io_uring and still can't make it work as fast with simple code as consistently for those use cases. AF_XDP gets me partly there but then you're writing ebpf... might as well go full-dpdk.
Maybe it's a skill issue on my part, though. Or just a well-fitting niche.