Just curious, how do people feel about this general style of soft deletes currently? Do people still use these in production or prefer to just delete fully or alternatively move deleted rows to a separate tables / schema? I find the complexity to still feel awkward enough that makes me wonder if deleted_at is worth it. Maybe there are better patterns out there to make this cleaner like triggers to prevent deletion, s…
Deleting rows directly could mean you're breaking references. For example, say you have a product that the seller wants to delete. Well, what happens if customers have purchased that product? You still want it in the database, and you still want to fulfill the orders placed.
Your backend can selectively query for products, filter out deleted_at for any customer facing queries, but show all products when looking at purchase history.
There are times when deleting rows makes sense, but that's usually because you have a write-heavy table that needs clearing. Yes, soft-deletes requires being careful with WHERE statements filtering out deleted rows, but that's a feature not a bug.