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Men are hitting on my scheduling bot because it has a woman's name

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Re: Men are hitting on my scheduling bot because it has a woman's name

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

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Someone who pesters waitresses to ensure the procreation of the human race is an argument against why that should occur.

As a former male server I experienced women hitting on me in ways that I thought only men did and it didn't feel great at all. I'm sure there will be guys out there saying that's a good problem to have, but it really isn't. Especially if you have a wife already.

Re: Men are hitting on my scheduling bot because it has a woman's name

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This is bizarre. I get very annoyed with creepy behaviour in the workplace especially. But if this post is true, then I would absolutely be forwarding the email thread to the client and simply say: "Could you ask your employee to please stop filling the automated assistant inbox".

Re: Men are hitting on my scheduling bot because it has a woman's name

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I used to work on a support team where a bot could solve simple cases: eg. if the user's software license had just expired, it would grant an immediate one-off 24 hour extension so the user could get their payments sorted.

The fun bit is that it would reply to the case using a female name, using the same kind of account as human support reps. The bot's customer satisfaction surveys were over the top effusive, including not a few people declaring that they were in love and asking us to promote "her" for being so fast, polite and effective. I don't think "she" was ever asked out on a date though!

Re: Men are hitting on my scheduling bot because it has a woman's name

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Imagine being an actual woman and having to deal with this bullshit all the fucking time. I have no idea how the hell they do it. Must be low-level torture.

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> I've asked out wait staff at restaurants, bar tenders, even co-workers with some success based on little more than them being nice or attractive

These people generally aren’t being nice to you because they reciprocate, they’re being nice because it’s their job. Asking them out while they’re working is awkward for everyone involved. Worse, it can make them feel pressured to let you down gently or give you the false impression that they’re interested if only they weren’t currently in a relationship.

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