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Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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Serious question: why not three parent? Does every stable relationship involve sexual aspects? Seems like an article stating an obvious fact but missing the bigger picture

The triple-stranded DNA isn't very stable with Earth lifeforms.

Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

#12
There was an excellent NYT article about this as well:

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/09/13/opinion/single-parent-pov...

> We are often reluctant to acknowledge one of the significant drivers of child poverty — the widespread breakdown of family — for fear that to do so would be patronizing or racist.

Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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Can't read the article even with archive.ph, but do they have an analysis of why relationships break down?

For me, I click the "I'm not a robot" captcha checkbox, and it just reloads the captcha.

I'm nervous and concerned that I'm not human. I distinctly remember having a childhood and living a human life, but those might just be uploaded memories. What is my best course of action to get to the bottom of this mystery?

Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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post #9

Serious question: why not three parent? Does every stable relationship involve sexual aspects? Seems like an article stating an obvious fact but missing the bigger picture

Or more to the point, lean heavily into "it takes a village to raise a child".

Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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post #9

Serious question: why not three parent? Does every stable relationship involve sexual aspects? Seems like an article stating an obvious fact but missing the bigger picture

Did you ever read The Moon is a Harsh Mistress? They have the concept of a "line marriage" where a marriage keeps going by marrying more people into the marriage. So you can have a married group that have been married for more than a generation.

Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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post #9

Serious question: why not three parent? Does every stable relationship involve sexual aspects? Seems like an article stating an obvious fact but missing the bigger picture

Given the rising costs of housing/living, it's going to take 3-4 working adults to fund a home before long. A 1-2 income household will become ever more of a luxury.

Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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post #9

Serious question: why not three parent? Does every stable relationship involve sexual aspects? Seems like an article stating an obvious fact but missing the bigger picture

In non-nuclear families, the third "parent" is normally an uncle, aunt, or grandparent that can provide additional financial support and babysitting options for the two parents. This is common in many countries where multiple generations of extended families live in the same house or neighborhood.

Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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post #8

Can't read the article even with archive.ph, but do they have an analysis of why relationships break down?

For me, I click the "I'm not a robot" captcha checkbox, and it just reloads the captcha. I'm nervous and concerned that I'm not human. I distinctly remember having a childhood and living a human life, but those might just be uploaded memories. What is my best course of action to get to the bottom of this mystery?

I once got a captcha featuring a street sign with a picture of a traffic light on it. It told me I had to click all the squares work traffic lights in it. But it's not a traffic light - it's a street sign depicting a traffic light. I'm not human afterall.

Re: Two-parent households should be a policy goal

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I don't think that's been sociologically plausible for many decades. Some things are easy to tear down and nearly impossible to build back up. In some circles, the mere suggestion that this should be a policy goal is insulting, as it hints that single-parent homes are inferior. Our government isn't really allowed to prefer one over the other, even if it would result in less misery. Furthermore, the tools that governm…

Single parent households are inferior, so why not spell it out?
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