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From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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Re: From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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post #8

> The process of finding a partner—and the struggle it frequently entails—is an omnipresent feature of the American cultural landscape Ah, yes, only Americans try to reproduce.

It's a completely factual statement, and relevant in the context of the article. It doesn't claim that the same cannot be observed, or doesn't happen, somewhere else.

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post #9
post #5

Disclaimer: published by the American Enterprise Institute, a centre-right think tank: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Enterprise_Institute

>a center-right think tank Well-poisoning[0]. If there are flaws with the surveys, criticize that. 0. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poisoning_the_well

No, I think if there is a clear bias from the source, you can also acknowledge that _and_ evaluate the piece itself. The source in this case has a clear conservative bias.

https://www.aei.org/policy-areas/poverty-studies/

Re: From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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post #9
post #5

Disclaimer: published by the American Enterprise Institute, a centre-right think tank: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/American_Enterprise_Institute

>a center-right think tank Well-poisoning[0]. If there are flaws with the surveys, criticize that. 0. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poisoning_the_well

A poisoned-well "argument" has the following form: 1. Unfavorable information (be it true or false) about person A is presented by another. (e.g. "Before you listen to my opponent, may I remind you that he has been in jail") 2. Therefore, the claims made by person A will be false.

I didn't make any assumptions on the veracity of their data or claims. Think tanks are politically motivated groups whose work entirely revolves around shifting the public's and decision makers opinions. I don't think it hurts to add a disclaimer.

Re: From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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post #8

> The process of finding a partner—and the struggle it frequently entails—is an omnipresent feature of the American cultural landscape Ah, yes, only Americans try to reproduce.

There are cultures in the world that are very dissimilar to the broader cultural landscape in the US. There are still many, for example, in which arranged or other family or community-oriented marriages take place, and these tend to not have as significant a focus on finding oneself a partner.

Re: From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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post #4

I'd love to read an updated version of the infamous OkCupid blog.

Thing with OkCupid is people refuse to actually practice the science of relationships. For example, they repeatedly were able to show blind dates produce better results, but the user base refused to participate in blind dates. At the point you’re cherry picking and reading dating science as entertainment or to back one off patterns that meet your desired outcome, that’s opposite of what the authors intended.

Re: From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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post #9

Earlier quoted context omitted.

>a center-right think tank Well-poisoning[0]. If there are flaws with the surveys, criticize that. 0. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poisoning_the_well

No, I think if there is a clear bias from the source, you can also acknowledge that _and_ evaluate the piece itself. The source in this case has a clear conservative bias. https://www.aei.org/policy-areas/poverty-studies/

You haven't argued that it isn't well-poisoning, just that you believe the well-poisoning is justified.

Re: From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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post #13
post #9

Earlier quoted context omitted.

>a center-right think tank Well-poisoning[0]. If there are flaws with the surveys, criticize that. 0. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poisoning_the_well

A poisoned-well "argument" has the following form: 1. Unfavorable information (be it true or false) about person A is presented by another. (e.g. "Before you listen to my opponent, may I remind you that he has been in jail") 2. Therefore, the claims made by person A will be false. I didn't make any assumptions on the veracity of their data or claims. Think tanks are politically motivated groups whose work entirely re…

Do you post on liberal sources "Disclaimer: this comes from a liberal source" too? If you're not doing it uniformly, regardless of bias, then yes, you are poisoning the well.

Re: From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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post #4

I'd love to read an updated version of the infamous OkCupid blog.

Thing with OkCupid is people refuse to actually practice the science of relationships. For example, they repeatedly were able to show blind dates produce better results, but the user base refused to participate in blind dates. At the point you’re cherry picking and reading dating science as entertainment or to back one off patterns that meet your desired outcome, that’s opposite of what the authors intended.

>the user base refused to participate in blind dates

And I can see why. Higher chances of a good result, but also higher chances of getting a fat woman or something like that.

Re: From Swiping to Sexting: The Gender Divide in American Dating and Relationships

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The results of the survey this article is based on seems to be nonsense. The numbers for women and men in each category should more or less match, unless there were a huge difference in same-sex or one-to-many relationsships or in the absolute numbers of male vs female, which seems implausible.
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