Maybe not the place for this question, but I've been wondering about it recently:
From what I think I understand, cremation usually leaves the bones, which are then ground to produce the "ash" that goes into the urn.
Why not just bury the bones in an ossuary? It would be much smaller than a typical grave, and that's what ends up in the vast majority of coffins eventually anyway (certain "incorruptible" bodies notwithstanding), so why not just start there and skip the grinding step?
I worked on a groundskeeping team for a small cemetery (in the US) as a summer job when I was in high school. Mostly, it was mowing grass, trimming weeds, cleaning lichen off stones (we got to use the power washer for that, which was always exciting), etc. There were typically only a few burials per month. We didn't do the burying; that had to be subcontracted out because it required special equipment and a lot of pa…
I friend of mine asked to borrow my hoe. After me saying '?' and '!', then he explained that, yes, in the UK you dig a hole with a hoe.
I recently learned that home burials are legal in most U.S. states. Gravedigging is hard work, but I think burying a loved one on their own property (with the help of some friends/family) is a nice alternative to a cemetery/graveyard.
Also, here's a free pet peeve: it's only a graveyard if it's next to a church. You're welcome!
I worked on a groundskeeping team for a small cemetery (in the US) as a summer job when I was in high school. Mostly, it was mowing grass, trimming weeds, cleaning lichen off stones (we got to use the power washer for that, which was always exciting), etc. There were typically only a few burials per month. We didn't do the burying; that had to be subcontracted out because it required special equipment and a lot of pa…
I friend of mine asked to borrow my hoe. After me saying '?' and '!', then he explained that, yes, in the UK you dig a hole with a hoe.
> in the UK you dig a hole with a hoe
(Pedantic Brit here) I think most Brits would say 'with a spade' if asked how to dig a hole and would use a hoe to break up soil, disrupt weeds, harvest roots, etc [0].
Why do cemeteries have fences? Because people are dying to get in!
I was once walking through a graveyard and someone asked me if the path had a different exit to the one they had entered by. I replied, "No, it's a dead end"
Maybe not the place for this question, but I've been wondering about it recently: From what I think I understand, cremation usually leaves the bones, which are then ground to produce the "ash" that goes into the urn. Why not just bury the bones in an ossuary? It would be much smaller than a typical grave, and that's what ends up in the vast majority of coffins eventually anyway (certain "incorruptible" bodies notwith…
I'm a funeral officiant in the UK, inter alia. The traditional purpose of an ossuary is to save the skull and two femurs, which were thought to be the desirable minimum for the archangel Michael to work the resurrection on the day of judgement (hence the symbolism of the skull and crossbones). Most cultures don't have a need to do that for religious reasons, and either want to scatter ashes, or bury them in a very compact personal grave or vault (by vault, I mean an pre-constructed underground concrete boxes, which would usually be part of a row with plaques on top). An ossuary would generally be communal, so not a great place to visit for an individual family member. If it were private, it would be larger than the very small vault used for burying ashes, so more expensive. Hence leaving out the grinding step makes the remains harder to dispose of, and doesn't really have any advantage. Having said that, there are some cultures for which the bones must not be cremulated (ground).
I friend of mine asked to borrow my hoe. After me saying '?' and '!', then he explained that, yes, in the UK you dig a hole with a hoe.
> in the UK you dig a hole with a hoe (Pedantic Brit here) I think most Brits would say 'with a spade' if asked how to dig a hole and would use a hoe to break up soil, disrupt weeds, harvest roots, etc [0]. [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hoe_(tool)
As a Brit, I would say the same. However it may be some specialised terminology - for instance the wooden beams that support the coffin over the grave before it is lowered are "putlocks", a word I had not come across before. So it would not surprise me if a sexton referred to a spade as a hoe.
Why do cemeteries have fences? Because people are dying to get in!
A twin-seat Cessna plane crashed into a graveyard this afternoon.
Rescue workers, hard at work at the scene, have already recovered 158 bodies so far and expect that number to climb as digging continues into the night.