'toxic positivity' that's a new one
Yeah, that's the part that really kills me about JavaScript. I can deal with the language, npm, some curious conventions in the community, every "npm install" telling me I have 100+ security vulnerabilities. It's the whole "THIS IS THE MOST AWESOME THING OF AWESOMENESS SINCE THE INVENTION OF AWESOMENESS!!!!" that kills me, which is really just my snarky way of saying that I found there's generally some serious lack of introspection in the community at large. Something like, say, the Python packaging situation is far from ideal, but people are generally pretty honest about the fact that the situation sucks, and that it has sucked for quite a few years. Python devs tend to get embarrassed when you ask about packaging, or the GIL, and most ecosystems have some pain point(s) like that.
I understand that some problems are just hard, that there are obstacles, or that things you build don't always turn out to work as well as you intended when you started out (sometimes what seemed like a good idea at the start turn out not to be so good ideas later on), and that many things are also trade-offs where there is no perfect solution. That's all okay. It's the whole attitude I find hard to deal with.