This is also a story about how complexity is at odds with availability on many levels. Ceph, the fancy RAID controller, and XFS are stacked building blocks to get more 9's of availability in the model where the enemy is hardware failures, but make it harder to understand the whole system well enough so you know you can operate, troubleshoot & recover it.
I simply don't understand why people use hardware RAID controllers. Anything above JBOD is asking for disaster.
Hardware RAID controllers always cause problems--whether due to being a throughput bottleneck or being a pile of bad firmware/hardware bugs.
The whole point of Ceph is to use commodity hardware and be reliable. Either Ceph works and things are reliable or it doesn't and you need to put it in the trash and get something that does. If Ceph doesn't really work, RAID hardware is just adding an extra failure point that adds nothing.