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Re: I can't process the information that is coming at me

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I think everyone feels like they're being hit with too much information at some point. But wanting to hide, and knowing it won't be over sounds really frustrating. Have you thought about running it past a therapist? They can help you size up the situation (eg are you anxious, and finding yourself avoiding work?), and think about options, or just help track how things are going.

I don't know about OP, but I know in my city (Boston), there was a 5 month waiting period for access to a therapist -- and that was _before_ COVID hit. Lots of us would love to speak with a mental health professional, especially in these trying times, but it's unfortunately not always possible. Like OP, I'm looking for strategies to help self-cope, as that's the only way forward for many of us for now.

Tele health is an option and there are more openings because of canceled in person visits. Now is a good time to establish care

Re: I can't process the information that is coming at me

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Learn to meditate, vipassana or "mindfulness meditation". This has a dual benefit... one is the physical benefit of leaving body and mind in a calmer state. The other is training the mind to become more accepting of whatever occurs... meditation is all about observing without judging.

Re: I can't process the information that is coming at me

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Don't listen to the commenters in here. Most people can't cope and are on anti-anxiety meds. Deep breathing / block breathing can help with short term panic attacks. Ultimately therapy and drugs work best, tough to get now but you might be able to do telemedicine if you find a good provider. You can even get Valium, Ativan, Xanax, or well, most anti-anxiety drugs mailed to you via mail order pharmacy since they are all only Schedule IV. Good luck.

Re: I can't process the information that is coming at me

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I have suffered with a fair bit of general anxiety my entire life. I'm 39 and while I'd say that I am significantly better at coping with it... it's still something that I struggle with and am still learning to deal with better.

I am not quite sure if you meant this post from a general "world at large", or from a "professional having a hard time with work" perspective. Or both? So the things I am about to say are from the "professional having a hard time with work" perspective as it's the one I personally struggle with. I'm sure some of this is applicable to the other category too.

1) Form routines, especially for stuff that generally spikes some anxiety for you. Figure out a process and just do it each and every day. I find that this helps with confidence.

2) Learn to say "fck it". Weird as it sounds, but learning to let go is an amazing tool. "You know, this situation could be better. But you know, fck it! It could be worse, so It can't be that bad"

3) Organize and plan things out. Prioritize things. Accept that you can't always tackle all issues. Use a todo app and list out everything you have going on for the day. As new things come up, add them as a todo. Keep the list prioritized and just focus on the highest priority item at the moment.

4) Learn to tell people you can't help them right now if it's not a higher priority than something you are currently doing. I struggle the most with this one. I always end up feeling really bad if I don't immediately drop everything and do whatever I can to help.

5) Close all those dang browser tabs. I'm sure you meant to come back to X thing 3 days ago... but honestly, it's just a distraction. Close all your random applications down. Open a fresh browser window and only have the stuff you need to focus on for the day. If something is really important, use a bookmark or otherwise take note of the page so you can come back to it later.

6) Medications are often useful tools and can help with improving your quality of life. It could be worth talking to your doctor. Medications generally don't solve problems, but if it can help improve your quality of life, it can be worth considering. It's also worth pointing out that it can potentially take a very long time to work out which medications are best for you. I take medication for high blood pressure for example. Having a lower blood pressure has also helped with my anxiety and just generally feeling better. This has also helped with my anxiety.

Re: I can't process the information that is coming at me

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Don't listen to the commenters in here. Most people can't cope and are on anti-anxiety meds. Deep breathing / block breathing can help with short term panic attacks. Ultimately therapy and drugs work best, tough to get now but you might be able to do telemedicine if you find a good provider. You can even get Valium, Ativan, Xanax, or well, most anti-anxiety drugs mailed to you via mail order pharmacy since they are a…

Right to drugs? He didn't say he had panic attack, but that he can't process.

I won't argue against medically prescribed drugs for people who need them, but "commenters" here who are talking about therapeutic modalities (CBT and NLP are great) and mindfulness (slow down, see things as they are, tackle the things you can) aren't off-base, and these are more than short-term solutions. They can be the keystone to true transformation.

Overwhelm is reasonable, but also addressable. By many different ways.

Re: I can't process the information that is coming at me

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Don't listen to the commenters in here. Most people can't cope and are on anti-anxiety meds. Deep breathing / block breathing can help with short term panic attacks. Ultimately therapy and drugs work best, tough to get now but you might be able to do telemedicine if you find a good provider. You can even get Valium, Ativan, Xanax, or well, most anti-anxiety drugs mailed to you via mail order pharmacy since they are a…

Ha, that's funny.

Starting your day with a shot of endorphins is a better way to go. Check out the book 'Convict Conditioning' by Paul Wade.

Re: I can't process the information that is coming at me

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Here's how I cope: Q: Where's my phone? A: I think it's on the shelf somewhere. Honestly I don't know. Q: How many tabs do I have open. A: Currently 5 and never more than 10. Q: How many times do I watch the news on TV. A: Never, I use youtube and I get the news from various sources on the topics that I want to hear. Q: How many IM apps do I have open. A: Just one, Skype and is reserved for friends only. Q: How many…

I get the newspaper delivered. That way I can look at it once a day and get a concise summary. The rest of the time I don't need to consider it.

Re: I can't process the information that is coming at me

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Part of your brain is responsible for filtering out irrelevant information from your stimuli. There are large classes of mental illnesses that have elevated sensory sensitivity as a symptom, which is what you are describing. It's also related to affect regulation.

People will say that you are watching too many news etc. I think there's a deeper issue. Education has absolutely 0 to do with it, this phenomena is not related to the conscious level of the mind.

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