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Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

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Re: Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

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post #8

Is my action of “bailing” transparent to the other party? Via (re)prompting my friend with a notification or something where they might be able to guess I was trying to get out?

The idea is that if you bail and they don't, they'll never find out and your plans will remain uncancelled.

But if you both decide you no longer want to meet up, you no longer have to, and nobody gets offended

Re: Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

#12

Hi, I created a quick landing page to validate an idea for an app. I'll be honest, the idea isn't mine. I saw it suggested in a Twitter post which had huge traction, and decided to run with it. At the moment I'm just trying to refine the concept and get an idea of whether there really is space for something like this out there

i saw the tweet as well. if you want some help designing and researching UX and flows, let me know.

Re: Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

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post #9

A version for intimacy: https://www.theverge.com/2019/10/31/20939932/lovesync-sex-bu...

I've also seen a similar one about wanting to get out of your marriage. Some people have questioned the antisocial aspect of the concept, but at least its more light hearted than that...

Re: Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

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post #10

Hi, I created a quick landing page to validate an idea for an app. I'll be honest, the idea isn't mine. I saw it suggested in a Twitter post which had huge traction, and decided to run with it. At the moment I'm just trying to refine the concept and get an idea of whether there really is space for something like this out there

Do people send calendar invites when hanging out with friends? Personally, if a meetup did actually make it into my calendar, I would not ship it to a friend.

I did wonder that. Personally, I put social events in my calendar but don't specifically invite the other people to it. I'm still validating the concept, but am initially leaning towards this being more of an integration with calendar services, particularly facebook where people probably do have common invites

Re: Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

#17
Some folks I knew who rented an apartment in East Village to do their own startup had this exact same idea with this exact same name back in '14. I don't think they lasted very long with it and all ended up getting jobs, but this did at least make me check if this was the same folks.

Edit: That said, I would pay to use this if it were done well and if I could get all my friends to use it.

Re: Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

#18
post #6

This is a little bit sad and a little bit scary. Have we reached the point where we now prefer to avoid actual communications with our "friends" that this exists? It's up there with people who won't answer phone calls and only want to text.

That's not the reason.

Telling a friend you want to cancel is hard, and depressing, and so you oftentimes go just to not bail on them. And hate it.

But what if your friend is feeling the same way? What if you both want to cancel, but neither of you wants to hurt the other person.

Well, with something like this, you can bail without letting them down; they only know you wanted to bail -if they also want to bail-. That's the key bit.

Re: Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

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Some folks I knew who rented an apartment in East Village to do their own startup had this exact same idea with this exact same name back in '14. I don't think they lasted very long with it and all ended up getting jobs, but this did at least make me check if this was the same folks. Edit: That said, I would pay to use this if it were done well and if I could get all my friends to use it.

Yeah, a number of people have suggested that similar things have been proposed but have never got off the ground.

Re: Bail – Get out of your plans, guilt free

#20

Looks interesting, but would really require some velocity. There's the social problem of requesting others to install the app by an individual. I'm not gonna ask my friends to install bail just in case they'd like to cancel, because I might want to cancel.

I'm leaning towards a setup where its a calendar integration where you and your friend may have no idea if the other even has the app installed.
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