It's absolutely true that you should be nice to people, but let me also issue a similar warning to newcomers not to ask questions in a way that inspires rage. Programming is, in a very abstract sense, a dirty job. We get paid well, have great benefits, perks, and mobility, but we are the toilet scrubbers of the software world. We spend whole days hunting semicolons, or trying to reverse engineer bug reports that no o…
Why not create a culture that embraces having new comers ask questions in a non disruptive way?
Something like a slack channel where experienced dev's can chime in if they have time.
I'd freak out on anyone on my team if they were telling new hires not to ask questions. That's just stupid.