I'm not primarily a Javascript developer, but I seem to remember that attaching event listeners to Object fields and modifying the DOM in event handlers is how Javascript development was done 5-10 years ago. Am I missing something? Are we going full circle?
Yup. I find that most cases of "JavaScript fatigue" are really cases of "I want tools custom tailored to my use case, but don't want to do the legwork to figure out what they are". The only thing wrong with jQuery is that it's perfectly fine until it isn't. Conversely, if you'll never need React's power you don't need it's complexity either.
Another issue was the rapid deprecation of age old JQuery plugins and the lack of equivalent plugins in the React landscape causing confusion whether you should build it yourself or not etc. I had hoped WebComponents somehow got standardized as the underlying architecture for SPAs, just so that the plugin/widgets wont get fragmented further, but it looks like it wont be happening anytime soon.