Let's be honest: If
you could make these choices more natural then you would have done so by now. If you could make SQL better than it is, you already would have done that as well. In fact, if most people who are interested in SQL could make SQL better than SQL is, we wouldn't be using SQL anymore.
We're not using it because we have some weird tradition we enforce. We're not using it because we like the way it looks, the way it writes, or the way it handles. We're not using it because we've tried to use ORMs and those ORMs have proved conclusively better across use cases than SQL.
The reason we use it is because we don't yet have a better solution. If you can write a better solution than SQL I would love to hear about it: I absolutely loathe SQL, but I use it because out of everything I've seen, it's the simplest and most elegant solution to the problem that I've ever come across.
So yeah, while we could possibly and should definitely make SQL better if we can, I don't think that suggesting that we just re-do it from scratch is the way to go. That way lies madness, and possibly javascript frameworks.