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You can't mean that. There are four possibilities: Older child boy, younger child boy Older child boy, younger child girl Older child girl, younger child boy Older child girl, younger child girl Of those only one is precluded by saying (at least) one child is a boy.
No there aren't ... notions of order like older/younger don't enter the equation (as the problem was stated). Oh well, I guess this is what the article is talking about :)
Suppose I roll two dice until at least one of them shows a 6. What's the odds of both being 6's? I've said nothing about the red die versus the blue die, but the underlying truth requires that the situations are kept separate. It's only - as far as we know - in quantum mechanics where you deliberately lose the distinction.
I've done these as real world experiments as I explore them with kids, and I have a lot of direct experience. If you disagree then I'd be delighted to gamble with you.