Not only to children. I'm intersex and not physically obviously so outwardly. But if you are able to do some imagining that we probably don't really want to write down here, the fact I'm internally female became profoundly apparent in my thirties. H2G2 fans will possibly appreciate I finally was fully cognisant only when 42. I endured a more than decade long breakdown which totalled my business. Meanwhile my family found records on our fathers death, did not tell me, arguably persecuted me, and I narrowly survived a decade long campaign to render me into care of mental health services. Avoiding which involved preferring prison on made up charges ( because family would not explain their reasons) and the physical re-emergence of a secondary organ system.. when I has my hand in a cast for a broken finger, the good fingers muscles became solid stuff within a few weeks. Now take the really not insignificant muscle of a female abdomen and leave it disused for forty years. I had shrunken by several inches due to compression of my lower spine.
Not only do my doctors lie, the records such as a x-ray which the radiologist was so shocked by despite forewarning to sieze the screen out of my sight, is destroyed or deleted. I struggled to walk much of last summer.
I'm amazed that I got ... I'm amazed I survived.
As for finding support our there being in London... There's none. Full stop. Period.
Oh and the fun only is hinted at here. Imagine where I found out first.. if you could guess how, you'd be psychic. Or heaphrodite. It seems to be edited now, but the Wikipedia article had it that hermaphrodites are noted throughout history for ability to predict the future, usually the unfortunate future. I reflected on the statement and realised that humans just spend far too much time dwelling on bad things despite being massively de risked in modern society. Unless you're hermaphrodite and don't know it. If you ponder how this can be undiscovered so long, the missing information is a heretofore blocked out epic history of suffering abuse.
I'm posting this because of my fear anyone else like me has been in far less confident or provident situations and the least I can offer you if this is you is a guaranteed laugh at my expense. I'm slowly getting patched in to the real world needs of addressing the concomitant problems and may be able to help in some practical ways despite I sadly must disclaim any promise as the whole proposition is new to me and I barely caught my breath just now.