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"Think banks have an unfair advantage? Then be a bank. Think corporate radio is keeping your music from being heard? Then make a radio station." A willingness to oversimplify the world certainly makes it a lot easier to write the kind of motivational drivel that this post aspires towards.

This kind of comment makes me wish we had a moratorium on signups or a $5 fee.

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I think the last part is really important. Even when a horrible system works in your favor, it behooves you to do what they can to improve the system, or at least prop the door open for others.

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If you're young and you're depressed by the phrase "It's all about who you know", I really encourage you follow this quick, life-changing script: email two or three people in your town that can help you, and offer to buy them lunch so you can pick their brain. It's very easy to meet people, and you don't have to be fake, politic, or even very outgoing.

Or email two or three people in your town that can help you, figure out how you can help them, and do that.

Reciprocity: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Robert_Cialdini

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post #10

If you're young and you're depressed by the phrase "It's all about who you know", I really encourage you follow this quick, life-changing script: email two or three people in your town that can help you, and offer to buy them lunch so you can pick their brain. It's very easy to meet people, and you don't have to be fake, politic, or even very outgoing.

Good advice! Maybe avoid the phrase "pick your brain" when you ask, though. It's much more mutually-beneficial to offer up an interesting two-way conversation about a subject you're both interested in. ("You're doing some fascinating things with crowdsourcing. It's something I've been diving into as well, and have some ideas for you. At very least it'll be a good conversation. Can I treat you to a quick after-work dr…

Honestly, I think the 'pick your brain' approach would work better in a lot of cases. Particularly if you are inexperienced, young, etc. Personally, I would almost never turn down a request to meet from someone who wanted to ask me for help, advice, introductions, etc, but as soon as someone says they have ideas for me I get pretty suspicious. Nine times out of ten that guy is trying to sell you something.

Of course, if it's something you can legitimately add value to (e.g. you actually have been diving into crowdsourcing or whatever) then your approach may be the way to go.

Great post.

By the way, if anyone actually wants to buy me a drink at Tres Agaves (which is very close to my office), please let me know :)

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post #15

Derek is among my favorite motivational gurus. And I mean that in a good way.

It's because he hasn't yet come to believe he's God. Hopefully he'll stay that way.

:-) Hacker News comments are really humbling. So many brilliant people here that really call you on your shit in an intelligent way. You can never mistakenly think you're brighter than most. Most of the time I feel, “Wow. I have nothing to add.”

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post #11
post #2

"Think banks have an unfair advantage? Then be a bank. Think corporate radio is keeping your music from being heard? Then make a radio station." A willingness to oversimplify the world certainly makes it a lot easier to write the kind of motivational drivel that this post aspires towards.

This kind of comment makes me wish we had a moratorium on signups or a $5 fee.

because that worked so well for K5.

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I can relate to the feeling when people suggest that, "It's all about who you know". The well connected seem to have a monopoly on relationships that matter.

I really admire your quick thinking but I feel that you don't always have an opportunity. I have been to lectures where as the lecture is over, the speakers seem to be escorted out.

Establishing a personal connection is difficult. One of the things I love about HN is how accessible everyone is, but not everyone provides a point of contact.

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