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Stoop Coffee: A simple idea transformed my neighborhood

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Re: Stoop Coffee: A simple idea transformed my neighborhood

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> my husband Tyler and I wanted that sense of community that feels like it’s only possible in the suburbs, but we believed we could achieve this while living in San Francisco.

This genuinely threw me because in my experience the suburbs are the antithesis of this, just lots of people occupying neighboring space and rarely talking to each other.

Still, a heartwarming story all the same. And yes, this is _exactly_ what city living should enable.

Re: Stoop Coffee: A simple idea transformed my neighborhood

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post #2

> my husband Tyler and I wanted that sense of community that feels like it’s only possible in the suburbs, but we believed we could achieve this while living in San Francisco. This genuinely threw me because in my experience the suburbs are the antithesis of this, just lots of people occupying neighboring space and rarely talking to each other. Still, a heartwarming story all the same. And yes, this is _exactly_ what…

>just lots of people occupying neighboring space and rarely talking to each other.

This is a bitter stereotype that is leveled against both city-dwellers and suburb-dwellers, and, like many stereotypes, has some truth to it in both cases, but amounts to uncalled-for negativity. Some people don't want to interact with their neighbors, regardless of whether they live in a city or a suburb. Others are sociable with their community, and express it just as well whether they live in a city or a suburb.

Re: Stoop Coffee: A simple idea transformed my neighborhood

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post #2

> my husband Tyler and I wanted that sense of community that feels like it’s only possible in the suburbs, but we believed we could achieve this while living in San Francisco. This genuinely threw me because in my experience the suburbs are the antithesis of this, just lots of people occupying neighboring space and rarely talking to each other. Still, a heartwarming story all the same. And yes, this is _exactly_ what…

>just lots of people occupying neighboring space and rarely talking to each other. This is a bitter stereotype that is leveled against both city-dwellers and suburb-dwellers, and, like many stereotypes, has some truth to it in both cases, but amounts to uncalled-for negativity. Some people don't want to interact with their neighbors, regardless of whether they live in a city or a suburb. Others are sociable with thei…

I installed nextdoor and now I actively avoid interacting with my neighbors

Re: Stoop Coffee: A simple idea transformed my neighborhood

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post #5

Earlier quoted context omitted.

>just lots of people occupying neighboring space and rarely talking to each other. This is a bitter stereotype that is leveled against both city-dwellers and suburb-dwellers, and, like many stereotypes, has some truth to it in both cases, but amounts to uncalled-for negativity. Some people don't want to interact with their neighbors, regardless of whether they live in a city or a suburb. Others are sociable with thei…

I installed nextdoor and now I actively avoid interacting with my neighbors

Why's that? Never used the app. Is it just a lot of negativity and you get negative vibes from them?

Re: Stoop Coffee: A simple idea transformed my neighborhood

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post #5

Earlier quoted context omitted.

>just lots of people occupying neighboring space and rarely talking to each other. This is a bitter stereotype that is leveled against both city-dwellers and suburb-dwellers, and, like many stereotypes, has some truth to it in both cases, but amounts to uncalled-for negativity. Some people don't want to interact with their neighbors, regardless of whether they live in a city or a suburb. Others are sociable with thei…

I installed nextdoor and now I actively avoid interacting with my neighbors

Social media tends to bring out the worst in people.

Re: Stoop Coffee: A simple idea transformed my neighborhood

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post #6

Ah nice, you've invented southern Europe! Seriously though, great concept and keep it going :)

Was just about to write.

My 69-year old neighbour just knocks on my door at random interval and asks if I want a coffee.

* I had an 80 year old neighbour as well, but she got sick and moved in with her daughter.

Re: Stoop Coffee: A simple idea transformed my neighborhood

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post #5

Earlier quoted context omitted.

>just lots of people occupying neighboring space and rarely talking to each other. This is a bitter stereotype that is leveled against both city-dwellers and suburb-dwellers, and, like many stereotypes, has some truth to it in both cases, but amounts to uncalled-for negativity. Some people don't want to interact with their neighbors, regardless of whether they live in a city or a suburb. Others are sociable with thei…

I installed nextdoor and now I actively avoid interacting with my neighbors

i think most of the types of people you'd want to hang out with aren't posting on nextdoor
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