Sexually Inexperienced Dating Couples Go on to Have Stronger Marriages
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#2Could be due to a few reasons:
If you have no idea what sex could be like with anyone else, you're less likely to be disappointed. If you accidentally find out, there's trouble ahead. Analogy: New Orleans parents thought their schools were great, until all the students got sent to Houston in Hurricane Katrina's aftermath.
If you are the type to do what you are told and bear with it, the strictures of marriage are easier to bear. Especially if you thrive on having rules that constrain your life. Then, the people who won't try to have sex with anyone (or just don't care about sex) will match up with people happy in a Mormon marriage.
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#3There was a statistic years ago that couples who don't live together before marriage were more likely to stay together. The pretty obvious factor that gets missed is it's religious people for whom it's tougher to get out of a marriage (so I suppose it's stronger). I don't necessarily see that as a bad thing, choice causes all sorts of problems, even if it gives more agency. But the causality is wrong.
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#4As you live your life, you are always developing habits. If you live promiscuously, you are training yourself to be incompatible with marriage.
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#5There is no definitive evidence or research to support the claim that sexually inexperienced dating couples go on to have stronger marriages. The strength of a marriage depends on a multitude of factors, including communication, compatibility, shared values, trust, and emotional connection.
Sexual compatibility is certainly an important aspect of a romantic relationship, and for some couples, sexual experience or exploration may contribute to their overall satisfaction. However, it is not the sole determining factor of a strong and lasting marriage. Each couple is unique, and what works for one may not work for another.
It's worth noting that open and honest communication about sexual expectations, desires, and boundaries is crucial for any couple, regardless of their level of sexual experience. Building a foundation of trust, emotional intimacy, and mutual respect is vital for a successful and fulfilling marriage.
Ultimately, the strength of a marriage is influenced by a variety of factors, including the individuals' commitment, emotional connection, shared values, and their ability to navigate challenges together. While sexual experience or lack thereof may play a role in a couple's relationship dynamics, it is just one aspect among many that contribute to a healthy and thriving marriage.