Live data from Hacker News

Family instability fuels rising nihilism among young men

city-journal.org

1–10 of 137 posts

Re: Family instability fuels rising nihilism among young men

#3
Everybody already knows this, so it has become a moot point. Nobody really cares, but they should. The deconstruction of the male's role in society will contribute to the downfall of the west, and that's coming from one of these mistrusting, nihilistic, 4chan contributing males

Re: Family instability fuels rising nihilism among young men

#4
Impactful article that sums up something I think a (very comparatively young) friend of mine is going through following a divorce just before COVID hit

Except does the title perhaps mean “melancholy” because I’m having a hard time finding the intrinsic nihilism as offered by the depictions within the piece. It simply labels unfortunate outcomes of certain elements of our modern experience as such and offers no epistemology or substantive thoughts for how the author arrived at such.

As presented, I think ‘melancholy’ is far more appropriate of an adjective here versus something as layered as ‘nihilism’.

Re: Family instability fuels rising nihilism among young men

#6
> This is how my friends and I treated one another, and others. There were other examples of stupidity. Taking baseball bats to taillights in parking lots. Driving around town shooting pedestrians and bicyclists with airsoft guns. Getting blackout drunk and racing down the freeway wearing a blindfold.

At no point in my life have I ever wanted to damage someone else or their property for the fun of it, and I wouldn’t call the acts above an example of stupidity. This is just bad parenting or hanging around people with bad parenting.

And my parents worked 24/7 trying to survive with their small business and trying to learn English. But I don’t think I had to be told not to go around breaking people’s tail lights. I saw how hard they worked to put food on the table, it would feel disgusting to me to throw all that effort away doing things to harm others for no reason.

Re: Family instability fuels rising nihilism among young men

#8
A lackluster opinion piece that is attempting to disguise as an essay.

The thesis of the article [0] is unsupported by any of its content.

Statistics for the number of friends people have are adjacent to statistics about suicides, implying a causal connection, but no statistics about the number of friends that suicide victims have are presented.

[0] - >The lack of stable families has contributed to the widespread mistrust of others and lack of social relationships among young people. It has, I believe, given rise to a sense of nihilism even in an era of relative material abundance, which has characterized some of the violent upheavals.

Re: Family instability fuels rising nihilism among young men

#9
This post resonates with me, but I definitely don't think it's hopeless. I'm in my early 30s, and have "no friends". There are people I would consider my friends, but as we grew up, we got adult responsiblities like jobs and family, most moved to different states for work, so I haven't actually been able to see them for years.

Recently I've been working to improve my life, so I've been going out for walks around my neighborhood more. Just by leaving my house more often, I think I've talked to my neighbors more in the past 2 months than I have in the 10 prior years I've lived here. Now they ask me to get their mail when they're out of town, they ask if I need any help after my wife's surgery, etc. When I go out, I rarely see anyone else my age, it's normally older people out doing things around the neighborhood. I say older, but I'm not exactly young; I was starting high school when my parents were my age. I really believe that the "loneliness epidemic" is a product of a generation that socializes almost completely online, and has no connection with their community. That's how I used to be, and I realize now how shallow and fake online relationships are.

Re: Family instability fuels rising nihilism among young men

#10

> This is how my friends and I treated one another, and others. There were other examples of stupidity. Taking baseball bats to taillights in parking lots. Driving around town shooting pedestrians and bicyclists with airsoft guns. Getting blackout drunk and racing down the freeway wearing a blindfold. At no point in my life have I ever wanted to damage someone else or their property for the fun of it, and I wouldn’t…

Did you grow up in a city?
Post reply on HN