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Re: Show HN: Open-sourcing my wedding website on my first anniversary

#91

Ok feel old. 20.5 years ago I sent out a link to a party celebrating our engagement. I spent more time explaining how to get to the website, than people finding website helpful. Still married - so get off my lawn :)

I had the same expirience of 'How do I use a website?' vs Website Has Information just over two years ago for mine.

Unless it's the first hit on Google, or all over people's preferred social media... They're as clueless as ever.

Re: Show HN: Open-sourcing my wedding website on my first anniversary

#92

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Are women banned on HN now? I think I missed that ToS change.

Actually women have been promoted to a supervisory role when it comes to wedding planning, so likely the groom would be tasked with the grunt work of dealing with the website.

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Re: Show HN: Open-sourcing my wedding website on my first anniversary

#93
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I still find the idea of a digital wedding invitation pretty strange, because here in Hungary the bride and the fiancé invite everybody in person together. Maybe distant relatives are invited by mail or something. Is digital invitation a common thing nowadays? Or was it more common even years ago in other countries?

As others have said, in the US the formal paper invite is considered official. When my wife and I married we still did this but we encouraged people to RSVP via the website or email. No sense in sending more paper.

It’s sad to me that we felt so pressured to do the paper invites. They’re ridiculously overpriced and all of that paper and emissions for delivery for something that can easily be delivered electronically and instantly for near zero cost.

The entire wedding industry thrives on norms like these and it’s amazing to me that technology doesn’t displace more aspects.

Re: Show HN: Open-sourcing my wedding website on my first anniversary

#95

I’ve got a different format - timeline style: https://www.09092018.com Let me know if anyone wants me to open source this :)

Nice job with the design/layout... that is a great way to present it. Also, nice move with the red envelope request, cash is _way_ better than useless wedding gifts.

Re: Show HN: Open-sourcing my wedding website on my first anniversary

#98

Ok feel old. 20.5 years ago I sent out a link to a party celebrating our engagement. I spent more time explaining how to get to the website, than people finding website helpful. Still married - so get off my lawn :)

They probably liked that better than you breaking out the slide projector when they came over for dinner though.

Re: Show HN: Open-sourcing my wedding website on my first anniversary

#99
post #6

I still find the idea of a digital wedding invitation pretty strange, because here in Hungary the bride and the fiancé invite everybody in person together. Maybe distant relatives are invited by mail or something. Is digital invitation a common thing nowadays? Or was it more common even years ago in other countries?

As others have said, in the US the formal paper invite is considered official. When my wife and I married we still did this but we encouraged people to RSVP via the website or email. No sense in sending more paper. It’s sad to me that we felt so pressured to do the paper invites. They’re ridiculously overpriced and all of that paper and emissions for delivery for something that can easily be delivered electronically…

How do you let people know about the website? Social media posts? How do you contact people not on social media about the website? A mailer? A phone call/text? These are just questions I would ask to understand why paper invitations are still a thing. Rather than providing a self addressed stamped envelope for the RSVP, just put the website into it.

Also, people love to hang things like invitations on their fridge as a constant reminder of an event that's somewhat far into the future. Rarely is that something printed off of a website, but a card received in the mail will pretty much get placed there straight away (or maybe after sitting on the counter for a period of time).

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