I self host for years about 30 services, out of these 3 are vital (bitwarden, home assistant and pihole). I work in IT, I am a geek so I tried a few monitoring systems and wrote two myself. Then I realized that I have self-sustaining, 24/7 monitoring agents: wife and children. I gave up trying to have the right stack and just wait for them to yell. Seriously: it works great and it made me wonder WHY I am trying to mo…
This is the first time I've heard a parent refer to their currently-living-at-home child as "self-sustaining".
When they were young they were definitely not self sustaining.
As teenagers they now live on food (either provided when it meets their standards, or the one they cook themselves), water and wi-fi.