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Re: Show HN: Twosome - app created originally for my girlfriend

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> she's hiding under a sheet with one stripey sock sticking out, a direct echo of "kids reading under the covers when the lights are out." No adult does that. Have a middlebrow dismissal: my wife does that, and she's 33. She loves hiding. I do have to say that you seem a bit grouchy for someone who works at a baby blue and pink startup called 'Freckle' :)

I don't "work" at a "startup," I founded the business! I designed every last bit. That's all me, baby. True cheer doesn't come from denying reality, it comes from understanding life and laughing at the joke. In this case, understanding means understanding narcissism and calling it out (cuz it's opaque to just about everyone else). PS - Does your wife do it while one cutely pigeon-toed stripey-socked foot hangs out an…

> understanding means understanding narcissism and calling it out (cuz it's opaque to just about everyone else).

I enjoyed the irony there :)

Apologies for confusing your role at Freckle; "Chief Butt Kicker" was obviously not simple enough for my brain.

Re: Show HN: Twosome - app created originally for my girlfriend

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Who cares what most couples/women are like. You are on here, so you'll tend to find a very small proportion of women attractive. (presuming higher than average intelligence) If you are proactive enough to choose in your dating life, you wouldn't complain about the culture. That's just externalizing the sources of your problems. "If I'm upset, it's just because I happen to lose out in today's culture." Make the most o…

> play the numbers game Meaning, just make a complete doormat of myself. Go on as many dates as possible, buy women as many things as possible, just keep giving and giving more and more. And maybe one day, some woman who no one likes will decide to give me a go, as a last ditch resort, and I'll get lucky for a night or two before she dumps me for someone with higher status. But of course I must not have enough "self…

You are deliberately misinterpreting to get some pity and avoid the hard work of changing what you can control. Life is not black or white. Women do have very similar problems to men. With your attitude you'll just filter out the people that will treat you like shit (because you expect them to treat you that way).
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