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Re: Show HN: Virus Cafe – Make a friend in 2 minutes

#201
My comments after trying it for a while:

- First off all, I like the idea! Thanks for making this! HN will often hold a hobby-project to the standards of a professional product, and will hence criticize a lot, but don't get discouraged, I enjoyed it.

- From time to time I got a repeated question, or the question was a bit lame/uninteresting. Maybe add a feature so you're able to "reroll" the question once per conversation (perhaps with agreement of the other). Personally I would like it if you could e.g. choose a category before getting matched.

- I got insta-disconnected quite often. This doesn't really bother me that much as I can try again immediately, but it could put people off when they try out the app and get skipped the first couple of times. People will judge the app on the first conversations. Do you punish frequent disconnecters? (Maybe put a limit, like max 2 disconnects per minute)

- The "no small-talk" is not very effective, some will entirely ignore the question. But I don't really think you can avoid this.

- I never got matched to a troll / something inappropriate. On the contrary: some conversations where quite wholesome (like a very friendly camel farmer with his little daughter). I hope it can stay this way.

- A majority of people I got matched to where from Saudi Arabia. This is not an issue on its own, but I found that many of these had poor English skills or a bad connection, which made conversations difficult.

- Some conversations where interesting, but some were also very lame. It's not so much the question that's important but also the personality of the person you get matched with. There are quite some people that go "idk lol how about you" after getting asked the conversation question. However the quality of the conversations are really the maker or breaker of the experience. It can be worth wading trough the bad ones for the good ones. Good ones occur less frequent tough, but tend to be longer. Indeed, 2 minutes is very short to have a proper discussion, so you extend it if it goes well. You could try to enhance this by e.g. making each renewal of the timer a minute longer.

Re: Show HN: Virus Cafe – Make a friend in 2 minutes

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This is awesome. I ignored all the questions. Just make it a clean chatroulette to have a coffee with random developers. Secure it with a programming question.

This is a great idea.

Surely the ability to answer a programming question will keep people who aren't well behaved out.

Re: Show HN: Virus Cafe – Make a friend in 2 minutes

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post #68

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> What percentage of cops kill innocent people, vs. save you from the bad guys Pretty low I suppose. The point is, we should take every precaution to keep the former as low as possible, preferably zero. The people are not seeing this effort at the moment.

So, you beat up old ladies and burn stores to do that? I don't think anyone wants police killing people, but this is crazy and useless. Also, was there not a pandemic where people were being chased eith drones to social distance? What happened to that?

What percentage of protesters beat up old ladies and burn stores, vs. just peacefully protest?

Re: Show HN: Virus Cafe – Make a friend in 2 minutes

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When the time is over you should let people exchange contact info if they want - and if both say yes then they see it or something like that.

I’m going to add this. It’s the #1 request people have asked for

And that sir ... is your PRO plan :-)

Re: Show HN: Virus Cafe – Make a friend in 2 minutes

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Don’t want to sully the conversation here, but I want to raise an important point - so @feross, please stick with it. I gave my daughter (6) my iPad for ten minutes this morning and put her on a site to draw minecraft skins. I took a call and took my eyes off the device (but not daughter) for about five minutes while I paced around the room. When I sat back next to her, she somehow ended up on virus Café and was in a…

> I gave my daughter (6) my iPad for ten minutes this morning There's your problem. Just don't do that. But if you can't avoid it, disconnect the internet before you do it.

What a silly answer. He is giving a reasonable, constructive criticism that should be simply be taken seriously.

You might disagree giving an iPad to a little girl. Fine. But the suggestion for the site still stands.

Re: Show HN: Virus Cafe – Make a friend in 2 minutes

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Hey folks! I built Virus Cafe to help you make a friend in 2 minutes! My goal is to help people stuck indoors because of COVID-19 (or police curfews) to make meaningful connections with strangers. Here's how it works: 1. You are matched with a random partner for a video chat 2. You're given a deep question to discuss. You have 2 minutes! 3. The only rule is: no small talk! Small talk is the worst and I'm on a mission…

Did you consider these questions? https://www.gwern.net/docs/psychology/okcupid/thebestquestio... These questions are selected as particularly relevant to dating while being innocuous. Even if Virus Cafe is not a dating site but I guess they can still be great conversation starters. They are: Proxy for "Will my date have sex on the first date?" - Do you like the taste of beer? Proxy for "Do my date and I have long-te…

Thanks for the link. I added these to the list! Now over 250 questions!

Re: Show HN: Virus Cafe – Make a friend in 2 minutes

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Hey folks! I built Virus Cafe to help you make a friend in 2 minutes! My goal is to help people stuck indoors because of COVID-19 (or police curfews) to make meaningful connections with strangers. Here's how it works: 1. You are matched with a random partner for a video chat 2. You're given a deep question to discuss. You have 2 minutes! 3. The only rule is: no small talk! Small talk is the worst and I'm on a mission…

This seems inspired by r/askreddit, but without the low impact anonymity that makes that sub work.

Re: Show HN: Virus Cafe – Make a friend in 2 minutes

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post #156

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> ...it's new information to me, regardless of how many times you've said it! Reminds me of a joke: — "What's your name?" — "Damien." — "Oh, you don't hear that name every day!" — "Actually, I do."

Where's Bill Hicks when you need him. "little Damien"... Relentless, Revelations?

Unfortunately we all know where Bill is.
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