Ask HN: How can I find a bicoastal roommate?

I've lived in San Francisco for the past 15 years but spent most of the past year in New York and loved it. I also love my apartment and friends and life in San Francisco.

I live in a two bedroom apartment in the Mission district alone and I have to imagine there's someone like me, in the same situation, in New York.

What I'm imagining is that I would trade my second bedroom--currently my office--for someone's second bedroom in New York and we could both live bicoastal lives and travel between the two cities as we please.

I keep posting to housing boards with no response because, I think, the perfect person for this situation hasn't even considered it before.

I also imagine the perfect person for this situation is probably also a fully remote software engineer-type like myself.

Has anyone tried this before and had any luck? Where should I be looking?

Neither. I think he’s looking for someone with a spare room in NYC where they can both come and go as they please.

So on any given day there are four possibilities both in NYC, both in SF, OP in NYC && roommate in SF, and roommate in SF && OP in NYC

It’s a pretty interesting concept, not one I’ve considered before, but one I imagine there would be interest in.

Don't see why it can't just be a situation where you have a different roommate in each state.

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