What mistakes did you make yourself in meetings that you have corrected as you progressed in your career?
Ask HN: Advice for avoiding being a bad participant in meetings
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Re: Ask HN: Advice for avoiding being a bad participant in meetings
#2The latter half of this isn't always possible, but lately in my career I've made it a point to never call a meeting that doesn't bring up at least 2-3 things that will be/need to be acted upon or looked into by someone (even if I'm that person) based on what gets discussed.
Re: Ask HN: Advice for avoiding being a bad participant in meetings
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#4The Sheriff; my way or the highway.
The Bluffer; Yip, that’s been done.
The Hard Worker; Always segways to their latest piece of work.
The Brain; Says little, has manufactured outcome of meeting before the meeting started.
The Joker; Makes everyone laugh, is heard the least.
I’m personally trying to be a little bit less the joker and the hard worker.
Re: Ask HN: Advice for avoiding being a bad participant in meetings
#5My experience of meetings and their players. The Sheriff; my way or the highway. The Bluffer; Yip, that’s been done. The Hard Worker; Always segways to their latest piece of work. The Brain; Says little, has manufactured outcome of meeting before the meeting started. The Joker; Makes everyone laugh, is heard the least. I’m personally trying to be a little bit less the joker and the hard worker.
Also goes by "Brent"
Re: Ask HN: Advice for avoiding being a bad participant in meetings
#6If you aren't providing value or the meeting is not providing value to you then you shouldn't be there. Perhaps the meeting shouldn't even exist? If this could have been a slack message or email or perhaps part of another existing meeting then you also shouldn't be there.
Re: Ask HN: Advice for avoiding being a bad participant in meetings
#7My experience of meetings and their players. The Sheriff; my way or the highway. The Bluffer; Yip, that’s been done. The Hard Worker; Always segways to their latest piece of work. The Brain; Says little, has manufactured outcome of meeting before the meeting started. The Joker; Makes everyone laugh, is heard the least. I’m personally trying to be a little bit less the joker and the hard worker.
The Inquisitor; dives into the minutiae of any topic.
Re: Ask HN: Advice for avoiding being a bad participant in meetings
#8My experience of meetings and their players. The Sheriff; my way or the highway. The Bluffer; Yip, that’s been done. The Hard Worker; Always segways to their latest piece of work. The Brain; Says little, has manufactured outcome of meeting before the meeting started. The Joker; Makes everyone laugh, is heard the least. I’m personally trying to be a little bit less the joker and the hard worker.
The Blocker: stubbornly disagrees; rejects others' views; describes unrelated personal experiences
The Withdrawer: won't participate; talks to neighbour; self-appointed note taker; switches off
The Recognition Seeker: boasts; excessive talking; conscious of their status
The Topic Jumper: continually changes the subject
The Dominator: tries to take over; asserts authority; manipulates the group
The Special Interest Pleader: uses group's time to plead their own case
The Playboy: wastes group's time showing off; story-teller; nonchalant; cynical
The Self-Confessor: continually makes comments about own feelings and insights
We Only Come in Twos: a pair that turn up together and only talk to each other
The Bomb: discloses personal information distracting group from tasks
The Can't-be-Bothered: disinterested; messes about; test's the facilitator with disruptive behaviour
Re: Ask HN: Advice for avoiding being a bad participant in meetings
#9My experience of meetings and their players. The Sheriff; my way or the highway. The Bluffer; Yip, that’s been done. The Hard Worker; Always segways to their latest piece of work. The Brain; Says little, has manufactured outcome of meeting before the meeting started. The Joker; Makes everyone laugh, is heard the least. I’m personally trying to be a little bit less the joker and the hard worker.