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Ask HN: Taking a few months off?

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Hello All,

I currently feel the burnout from a stressful project and commute that I have been doing for about 2 years. I started as a consultant with the idea that it would be a short gig, but ended up in a leadership role. I know this is something that is not to complain about, but this opportunity has afforded me an opportunity to take a few months off before looking for another job. I want the communities thoughts on quitting a job without something else lined up (based on my current experiences, it seems like the market is still quite ripe for developers) and how would future employers look at taking a few months off to myself. I would try and work on side projects and continue to learn the things I feel I am currently weak on, but won't get an opportunity to learn at my current project. Thanks All!

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How's your savings? How's your confidence about finding work again? I've taken time off twice (eight months last time) and the recharge was great and worth it.

Thanks for the replies, I feel pretty confident. I have about 9 years experience now and 3 full years with Node.js. I've been doing some networking recently and there seems to be a lot of opportunities in my area. I feel like to take the next step, I would really like to take some time off and tighten up my skills, learn some react (I spent a year with Angular about a year ago) and some sys admin work to really round out my understanding of the full stack and get up to date with some of the latest and greatest. I can't do that currently working 10-12 hours a day.

Financially, I think I have enough saved to continue my current lifestyle for 4-5 months and still have an additional 4-5 months of savings, but I don't think I want to be off work that long, 2-3 months tops.

I'm glad to hear others have done it and haven't had issues explaining to potential employers. It seems like having this luxury would be the best way to land a new job because interviewing can be a full time job in and of itself. In the past when I've moved jobs, I haven't been very picky, I usually jumped for new opportunities as they arose when I wasn't really looking too hard.

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#5

Taking time off between jobs is very common and future employers won't think anything of it. The only question is whether you can afford the opportunity cost of not bringing in a salary.

Thank you for your reply, I could go 4-5 months without burning out too much of my savings and still be left with at least a 6 month run way. I'm beginning to think that taking time off and sharpening my skill set to things that peak my interest could have more value long term. It is an interesting proposition of weighing current opportunity cost vs potential down the road.

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#6
It's normal. I'd recommend joining a coworking space or getting involved with communities of some kind, going to meet ups, etc, as that will keep you social and may end up getting you work.

If you're interested at all in traveling, check us out: hackerparadise.org

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#7
Was in an extremely similar situation a few years ago and I kept asking the same question but continuing to burn myself out while I considered what to do.

Finally I just snapped and was unable to work or really communicate with anyone. I stopped showing up and felt horrible for my totally unprofessional exit. I had been barely sleeping and while sure the money was amazing I had no time to spend it.

In hindsight I should have worked on my communication skills and rapidly tapered down my efforts to a sane place. But I waited until I was just broken and had to bail.

However, it was in the end a much much needed rest. I took 4 months off work, got outside a ton, lost a bunch of weight, got my personal life and friendships recalibrated and jobs and work started showing up as soon as I was ready to work again.

Since then I have made healthier habits, and people actually respect me the same amount or more for having those habits. I also have learned tricks to still get an amazing amount of stuff done without burning out, which is largely communication, diet, exercise and sleep, all things I used to be awful at.

Take the break, it will be worth it!

Edit: and with 9 years of experience you already know how to learn, don't make the focus just more technology, at least make it a partial computer break.

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Was in an extremely similar situation a few years ago and I kept asking the same question but continuing to burn myself out while I considered what to do. Finally I just snapped and was unable to work or really communicate with anyone. I stopped showing up and felt horrible for my totally unprofessional exit. I had been barely sleeping and while sure the money was amazing I had no time to spend it. In hindsight I sho…

" I kept asking the same question but continuing to burn myself out while I considered what to do." -This is exactly how I feel right now and fear I am headed towards blowing up at my current job because I am just so overstressed. I really like these people I work with and think I need some time away in order to salvage the relationships. Thank you so much for solid advice, you description is spot on to where I am at now and where I want to be.

Thank you!

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post #6

It's normal. I'd recommend joining a coworking space or getting involved with communities of some kind, going to meet ups, etc, as that will keep you social and may end up getting you work. If you're interested at all in traveling, check us out: hackerparadise.org

I will definitely check that out, thank you for the advice, too!

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#10
I was in a very similar situation (nasty commute, 3 years of very stressful work with a lot of hours).

I left without a job lined up. It took me less than a month to find a new job that I liked. I had several offers and declined a number of them early on as I looked for something better.

You can certainly do it. I suggest you take two weeks off to relax and prepare for interviews, then hit interviews hard and keep practicing for whiteboard interviews.

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