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What do i do ? how do i get her back?
It sounds like you successfully identified the cause of this issue. I'll be honest with you, if you can't change the way you feel when going to work, find another job.
If I was you, I would quit my job, and after I found another one call my gf, tell her that I realize I screwed it, that I am very sorry and that I learned from my mistakes. By doing so, you have proofs that you are serious about it and she will likely come back.
Edit : But ultimately you need to understand the benefits of changing your work environment so that even if she doesn't come back you will have no regret. Keep your life above your work, consider your best interest first.
I dont know how I feel about this one. I feel she should be the one helping/supporting you through your down period and not leaving you when stuff is messed up
I dont know how I feel about this one. I feel she should be the one helping/supporting you through your down period and not leaving you when stuff is messed up
When your work causes your personal life to suffer, your manager hasn't pushed you to the limit. He's pushed you past your limit.
I dont know how I feel about this one. I feel she should be the one helping/supporting you through your down period and not leaving you when stuff is messed up
I went through a down period a few years back, lost my gf of 5 years to it. Her leaving removed my saftey crutch and forced me to get my own shit together. Sounds like it's what the OP might need too.