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Ask HN: What's your greatest epiphany?

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Re: Ask HN: What's your greatest epiphany?

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That much of what seems solid and immutable is really a social construction, subject to change, affected by politics, argument and shared experience.

Race, money, even colors like blue and green only exist in a particular social context.

Re: Ask HN: What's your greatest epiphany?

#93
That 'now' is all that matters. Don't spend too long in the past, or worrying about the future.

That happiness is just a matter of wanting less as opposed to having more.

And learning about the financial crossover point was another light-bulb moment. When you can save most of what you earn, to get to a point where working isn't necessary, but a pleasure..

Re: Ask HN: What's your greatest epiphany?

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post #74

- Ayn Rand is right. - If you want something, the responsibility of getting that lies on you and you alone. You are responsible for both success and failure. - To get what you want, 'You should do what it takes'. Even if that's not within the moral/ethical/acceptable norms of the society. Or unpleasant or unhelpful to people people around you. - You will either follow this and rise, or will be used(and then thrown) b…

This sounds less like epiphany and more like things you wish were true.

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post #76

Death is inevitable and life is meaningless. Most people would be depressed with this epiphany but for me, it was liberating.

If you had truly come to terms with death and believed life is meaningless you'd be unable to even so much as go to the bathroom. More likely, you've tricked yourself into thinking these things.

Re: Ask HN: What's your greatest epiphany?

#97

How much of human activity is just signalling, posturing, and status jockeying with no purpose I would consider practical. To the point where those behaviours seep into contexts where they're obviously unproductive, like discussions on pseudonymous Internet forums. Robin Hanson has some extensive descriptions[1] of what I mean, with the crucial insight that "X is not about Y"[2], and that rationalization may be the o…

these links remind me of Alain De Botton's Status Anxiety.

http://alaindebotton.com/status/

Re: Ask HN: What's your greatest epiphany?

#98

I have a few off the top of my head: - Learned helplessness is one of the biggest enemies to learning, but it's insidious in that sufferers don't recognize it. Often, I'll try to teach someone something, and I'll know for sure that they can and will grasp a concept, but they'll just stop short on their own accord, chalking failure up to their own (imagined) inherent inability rather than a specific situational lack o…

I have an identical twin brother. We took separate classes in high school, he was really good at math, physics and science, while I really, really sucked at them. If you asked me at that time, I would tell you 'I just don't get math'. Those were my literal words. We are genetically the same, so it's impossible that his brain is somehow wired in a different way than mine, but I would still say the problem was me, inst…

why didn't you go on the same classes/teachers ?

Re: Ask HN: What's your greatest epiphany?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

I have an identical twin brother. We took separate classes in high school, he was really good at math, physics and science, while I really, really sucked at them. If you asked me at that time, I would tell you 'I just don't get math'. Those were my literal words. We are genetically the same, so it's impossible that his brain is somehow wired in a different way than mine, but I would still say the problem was me, inst…

why didn't you go on the same classes/teachers ?

That was a conscious decision. Being twins and all is fun, but people (and thus, teachers), tend to see you as one entity. We split classes when we were 11 years old, we both felt like we had to be our own person, with our own friends, independent from one another.

This also had some nice side effects, I was really good at languages, history and biology, so I could take my brother's tests. He was good at math and science, so he occasionally took mine.

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