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Monopoly. If the player elects not to buy the property he lands on, it gets auctioned to the other players. This oft unfollowed rule makes the game 100x more fun when followed.

That and free parking doesn't pay anything. Number of houses/hotels is also limited to the number that came with the game. Play by the rules and the game will actually come to an end.

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#833

Oh! Another! Car side mirrors. I spent more than a decade of driving adjusting them wrong. You want them so you don't see cars behind you at all in your side mirrors until they're transitioning off the edge of your center rear-view mirror. This gives you far more coverage of your sides, and every car is still visible in at least one mirror at all times. For me, where I put my seat, this usually means setting them as…

I'll add to this that if, while you're parking, you angle your mirrors downward, you can easily see your proximity to the curb/line

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My father said to me: "I like a shower better than a bath, but ugh, that first blast of cold water when you turn it on is always a bit shocking." Me: "Why don't you turn on the shower, wait for it to get warm, then get in?" Him, realizing he'd been using a shower wrong for over 6 decades: "... huh."

Wim Hof would disagree. I always start and end my showers with 1 minute of full cold (in Canada, so cold = 8°C)

Why start the shower full cold? (I end showers cold, not sure if 1 minute, sometimes less sometimes more depending on mood)

Re: Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?

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post #33

Staying warm. In the winter, I used to stay warm by turning up the thermostat. Then I discovered (via HN) the Low-Tech Magazine article, "Insulation: first the body, then the home." [0] The article argued that it's much more efficient to focus on heating yourself rather than your whole living space. I invested in high-quality wool clothes that I wear in layers and warm slippers. Now, I keep my home about 5 degrees F…

Another thing that can really help with this is a hot water bottle. You can put it on your lap, or under your feet and it really helps you keep warm if you are sitting for long periods of time. Helps if you put a small blanket over your lap as well. Usually lasts for a couple of hours before you need to refresh the water in the bottle.

This just came across my desk this morning, it discusses the benefits of hot water bottles as an alternative means of keeping warm.

https://www.lowtechmagazine.com/2022/01/the-revenge-of-the-h...

(HN discussion from 2022 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=30023681)

Re: Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?

#836

I used to be a NIMBY. I thought small neighborhoods that have nice characteristics should never evolve or change, I thought places with tons of people were unpleasant to live in, I looked down on people who could afford market-rate new housing ("evil techies"), I thought new development increased rents (it doesn't). 20ish years later, seeing the homelessness, property crime, and housing crisis in the Bay Area, I am c…

I read an article I found on HN about how housing regulations ensure there is a minimum price on housing. If you can only afford housing below the minimum required to meet the regulations then you go homeless. We don't want people homeless but on the other hand, we don't want people producing unsafe housing just to keep costs down. It's a particularly nasty problem that I've only seen discussed in that one article.

This is a general economic argument against any government-mandated price control.

People see someone making $6/hour and think that passing a law that minimum wage must be $8 means that person will now make $8, but technically the law only says "it is now illegal to pay that person $6."

Some businesses may be able to afford the raise and still turn a profit, but for others, if that person's labor is worth $7/hour to your bottom line, it is suddenly no longer a good business decision to keep them employed.

Re: Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?

#837

"Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?" Worked hard believing it would be rewarded.

>Worked hard believing it would be rewarded.

Even if you're not seeing the rewards of your hard work now, they will come one day.

Let's say you've spent the last 10 years working your arse off for a shitty boss who doesn't appreciate you. At least you're far more competent than if you'd been lazy for 10 years under the same shitty boss.

Go find a better situation and you'll be grateful for the skills you've picked up, even if it hurt to acquire them.

Re: Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?

#838

I used to be a NIMBY. I thought small neighborhoods that have nice characteristics should never evolve or change, I thought places with tons of people were unpleasant to live in, I looked down on people who could afford market-rate new housing ("evil techies"), I thought new development increased rents (it doesn't). 20ish years later, seeing the homelessness, property crime, and housing crisis in the Bay Area, I am c…

I read an article I found on HN about how housing regulations ensure there is a minimum price on housing. If you can only afford housing below the minimum required to meet the regulations then you go homeless. We don't want people homeless but on the other hand, we don't want people producing unsafe housing just to keep costs down. It's a particularly nasty problem that I've only seen discussed in that one article.

In this context "housing regulations" doesn't usually mean stuff like electrical standards[1]

It means stuff like "houses must be single story", "no apartments", "yards required", "minimum 2500 square feet", "setback from street".

[1] - Although I have seen a lot of threads about how the requirements for multiple exits in US apartment buildings is probably unjustified. See also elevator requirements.

Re: Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?

#839
Being correct is extremely overrated, it’s better to allocate that time to doing more things or fully internalizing information you already know (I.e. how everyone knows it’s better to take chances than not but basically everyone is at least somewhat chance-averse).

Re: Ask HN: Something you’ve done your whole life that you realized is wrong?

#840
Tangential to the original question, just want to note that having such realizations constantly is one of the primary benefits that accrues if you expend the energy to constantly keep yourself in a learning/teaching mindset.

The primary global benefit of teaching, in my experience, is that it keeps us jaded experts constantly at the entry point to our field. Close to the basic, foundational material. Making sure that it’s easy for new people to join, because that’s how the field grows and it’s good for everyone in it.

The primary local benefit, to the teacher, is that you have moments like this that allow you to constantly refine your worldview to be more congruent with reality. This allows you to better define what should be taught, and how.

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