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Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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post #519

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I have a similar story. I learned at all early age the only thing appearing like the smartest guy in the room was good for was paining a target on your back. I also learned how to emulate empathy, it's not perfect, but it makes up for the natural broken/missing wiring in my head. Also early in my career I talked my way out of several jobs, You might have the best ideas in the world, but if powers that be don't want t…

> I also learned how to emulate empathy, Please don't. I know a guy who does the same. It comes across as utterly condescending.

hen I fail to do it correctly, I get immediate negative feedback. If I fail to do it at all, I get immediate negative feedback - its part of success for me.

I do genuinely care about people, I just cannot for the life of me understand why things upset others.

Failing to do it, makes me less employable, and less successful socially.

Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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The GP has put a "your" instead of "you're" in (almost) the very next sentence, so you don't even need to point to your own mistakes to illustrate your point...

> The GP has put a "your" instead of "you're" in (almost) the very next sentence Correctly so

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Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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post #784

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Not a thought that would have crossed my mind. My mental model was more along the lines of Paul Erdős showing up on famous mathematicians doorsteps asking for a place to live. I don't think anyone accused him of being some loafer trying to hitch a free ride. I mean if you backpack and people don't even want you around for free then how on earth are you ever going to get that faang cash money.

I feel like we might just have different ideas of backpacking. People wouldn't want you around for free if you are net negative, but if you're suggesting what is basically an unpaid internship for strangers, then I just didn't interpret backpacking to mean that.

I'm suggesting that, if you're unemployed, you can literally do anything. With or without money you have the power to change the world. So what you choose to do with that freedom says something about who you are as a person.

Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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Gentle tip: writing "shouldn't of" instead "shouldn't have" is one of those critical writing misteaks one should never make when communicating with educated people. Some others worth special effort to do correctly: 1. their there they're 2. its it's 3. your you're A couple other writing tips: 1. don't terminate sentences with .. or ... 2. "bosses" is plural, I think you meant "boss's" for the possessive I know it sou…

> 1. don't terminate sentences with .. or ... Why not? 'Do you prefer C or Rust?' 'Would you like paper or plastic?' Perhaps I misunderstand.

Not sure where you got the question marks from, but he's talking about ellipses (two or three periods in a row, like '...'). It's actually a stylistic choice and there's nothing inherently wrong with using it, but it is generally considered unprofessional and overuse is extremely annoying for readers.

Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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post #519

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I have a similar story. I learned at all early age the only thing appearing like the smartest guy in the room was good for was paining a target on your back. I also learned how to emulate empathy, it's not perfect, but it makes up for the natural broken/missing wiring in my head. Also early in my career I talked my way out of several jobs, You might have the best ideas in the world, but if powers that be don't want t…

> I also learned how to emulate empathy, Please don't. I know a guy who does the same. It comes across as utterly condescending.

Empathy is very much a learned skill. "Pretending" to care is a good way for me to get someone's attention and learn a bit of their story, and then find something to relate to.

Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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post #656

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> Most hires will take a year to get productive (where they produce more value for the company than they cost). I never fully understood this. In pretty much any company I worked, if by the end of the month you weren't productive (almost fully independent) you would get the boot. Do companies really expect for new employees to take a year to be consistently productive? In startup land, that is like 2-3 product launch…

It is not common, but "a year to value" is not rare either. Some projects (SW/HW interfaces; many multidisciplinary efforts, like biomedical software) take a while to fully get into. I am not talking about someone not doing anything useful -- that should come quickly. But it may take several months or a year for them to start creating more value than their salary+benefits+other costs. And as long as the new hire show…

IBM's apprenticeship program is one year long. I suspect the reason why is because they've been around long enough to know the truth of this.

Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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post #183

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> They solicited for my name, and email to be added to the Slack. Your terminology here says a lot, right? If you are going to a meetup to meet people, then the whole point is to get to know people. And yes, that will involve them knowing your name, and communicating with you. To open up your job prospects: realize this is normal and desirable.

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Whoa, personal attacks like that will get you banned on HN. No more of this, please.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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post #797
post #780

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Ah thanks for the reply, and yeah that makes sense. I don't believe it was a mistake as of now, but let me tell my story a bit better: I got funded by Tyler Cowen / Peter Thiel @ EV and some angels for my first real company (can't link here), and while it wasn't required, I was making quite a bit of money so I left school. (I had a 3.98 my first 2 years in dual Comp Sci / Physics before, so I left with a 3.35 GPA aft…

Ok cool. With this write-up, you de-risked one area and added risk in a second area. GOOD: High GPA, got funded, ambitious, quit school for valid and rational reasons. I'm excited to hire you. BAD: Startup didn't work, I worked on some other ones, trying one more time before I get a normal job. Now I'm concerned that (a) you think you're hot shiz and won't accept an entry-level dev role and/or won't be willing to put…

Thank you so much for this reply. This is very helpful, I really appreciate it.

Re: Ask HN: How can a unhireable person get a job?

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post #638

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I really dislike the suggestion that someone who didn't attend college is therefore unable to write. - "i" should be "I" - "You are still young, plenty..." should be "You are still young, with plenty..." - "would currently hire you," shouldn't have a comma - "entry level", "dead end", and "world famous" should all be hyphenated - "AAA games at an..." should be "AAA games in an..." etc...

> I really dislike the suggestion that someone who didn't attend college is therefore unable to write. That's not what he said. He suggested that someone who doesn't write well probably didn't attend college.

They teach you English writing in CS/STEM programmes?
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