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Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

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Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

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This reminds me of the time I interviewed for a developer job at a young startup (college dropouts and just-grads), and the interviewer asked me, age 26, "what is like to be so old?" Given time, you'll see.

I distinctly remember, at age 19, not being able to imagine what it would be like to be old — like, 25.

Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

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What's it like to be old? My boss is younger than I am and is absolutely sure he knows more about my job than I do, even though I've been doing it since before he was born and he never did it at all. People on TV keep trying to sell me stuff like Metamucil, some new kind of cane or similar silly gadget, or a scam investment, none of which I want. My grandkids can't understand why I can't read things they're holding r…

Can you please expand on that advice? What should we be paying attention to?

I like Dan Millman's lesson in a Peaceful Warrior

What time is it? Now Where are you? Here

Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

#83
I remember when I was a teenager and wondering what life would be like at 50. Now I know.

You feel exactly the same, only with less time left. You're still you. You still feel the same. You still want to experience all the same things and achieve. But now with less time, you have to start triaging some goals and face reality.

I remember thinking I have all the time in the world. Now I don't. So I guess that's the main difference.

Also, I used to hold the illusion that I'd always have my family and parents to talk to. But that's not true either.

Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

#84
post #70

Experience the benefits of fasting -- it will take care of excess weight and has other benefits.

Second this. Been doing a variety (16:8, 18:6, OMAD, 36/48/72hr) of fasts for nearly five years now and it has been a life changer. For those interested, check out The Complete Guide to Intermittent Fasting by the Canadian nephrologist (Jason?) Fung.

Also see Thomas Delauer's yt channel. Many good tips there. I do 1x 36 hr/week for abt 1.5 years now.

Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

#85
Avoid becoming addicted to anything (e.g., don't consume unhealthy illicit substances). Get enough sleep, sunlight, and exercise. Also, make sure you adopt a healthy diet where you remember to also consume things that will improve your gut bacteria so that your body thoroughly absorbs all those healthy nutrients. Of course, if you don't care how long you live, you can ignore all of the above advice. Some people say they don't want to live forever, but I've yet to encounter anyone who was happy to exit this world like a satisfied diner at a restaurant.

Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

#87
One of the crazy parts about being older is how time feels different. 10 years ago seems like yesterday, but when I was young that seemed like forever. It doesn't seem like the world changed much until you actually think about the details.

Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

#88
My first advice would be to not underestimate the importance of sleep. This is a key factor for both quality of life and productivity. The only way to optimize sleep is to sleep enough.

Second, try to understand the power of compound interests as soon as you can. Life is long enough to invest and see the returns. Invest in yourself and in projects with long-term value, don't be seduced by shortcuts and don't be a slave.

Last thing, there is a lot of blind and seemingly unjust randomness in life, it is better to embrace it.

Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

#89
post #30

I've posted about this many times here and so have a lot of other people: If you're suffering from any chronic aches or pains especially back pain or RSI it may be TMS (though only a doctor can tell you that but you need to be informed). The internet and medical community is full of misinformed people who will fill your head about how a pinched nerve or a slipped disc can cause you immense pain and some doctor may ev…

What does TMS stand for?

as others have said, tension myositis syndrome. The theory is supressing uncomfortable thoughts results in the body instead trying to communicate them as pain.

I personally think its quack science, but it seems to work for some people, so that is what matters.

Re: Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you give to younger people?

#90
post #83

I remember when I was a teenager and wondering what life would be like at 50. Now I know. You feel exactly the same, only with less time left. You're still you. You still feel the same. You still want to experience all the same things and achieve. But now with less time, you have to start triaging some goals and face reality. I remember thinking I have all the time in the world. Now I don't. So I guess that's the mai…

That was me a 1 or 2 years ago, and I'm only in my mid 20s.

Just the realization that life is not limitless

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