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The only thing wrong with this whole thing is that you think it’s okay to start relationships with a lie. Thats not okay. It demonstrates a lack of integrity. Your friends deserve better.
Perhaps, but they do seem to like me. Should I warn them? Tell them I'm dangerous?
Kidding aside friend, I get the feeling you've been hurt in the past and that's really sad. I can't change any of that. But I can tell you that you're a pretty cool person in the present and you can attract other cool people by being authentically you. Consider your list of favourite books - you're fricking cool.
If you're authentically you, you will get burned and that's sad. But in a way, you're burning other people to keep from being burned.
Thanks for this talk - I enjoy you.