So around the TDD phase of Rails and Ruby, there was this huge push to make methods 5 lines or really short and dependency inject everything. It would make changes incredible hard to make because which the open closed principle talks about how things like this should be easy to change, you end up with a lot of subtle bugs because your individual dependencies drift from each other. I think the Ruby community has gotten much better now with more experience but ya that time it was crazy. And Ruby allows you to really take the metaprogramming and block passing madness to the next level.
I didn't leave the community because of it. I left it because Ruby was slow as molasses, dynamic typing is a failed experiment (imo) and people would love magic and be proud of it. Which meant systems would break in production more times than I could take and I have done so many on call rotations because someone thought some magic was a fun way of doing it.
For personal projects I used Steel Bank Common Lisp because there the dynamic nature of the language actually has benefits such as programming through the REPL which is much more reliable than typing dynamic code in an editor to build programs.
Once I had to hire people I moved to Go but then again moved to Rust because I want to write programs which do not break, is fast as possible and doesn't take my users' memory and cpu for granted. Who am I to burn their electric bill or data plan while delivering broken buggy software to them. Plus I cannot stand null pointer exceptions and Go due to their ideological drive of remaining "simple" has null pointer exceptions in 2024.
Also the other meta thing I realized was because Rust is harder to get into, the discourse, libraries, tutorials, community is much higher quality compared to anything else I have seen so far so I really enjoy it. Plus Rust has some really cool things like high level maps and functional code while them compiling down to the same Assembly as for loops and other such zero cost abstractions that I like.