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Re: Ask HN: Is your memory as bad as mine?

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Mid-life burnout/overwhelm and long term low-level stress can all contribute, in my and my team's. experience. You've not mentioned gender either - menopause in women can cause brain fog etc. You end up feeling like "25 year old me was so much sharper and quicker, wtf?!" Assuming that: you work in tech; you're probably not neuro typical; you've developed so many coping strategies for life's ups and downs you don't ev…

I wasn’t sharp at any age ;-) maybe with programming but not memory.

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I have bad memory at times. Mostly concerned when I forget something I know well. The other day I forgot the word "distributed system",which I use a lot. Felt embarrassing.

I noticed it's way worse when I don't sleep.

I have serious dust mites allergy, I wonder if that has a great effect (my nose is always partially blocked).

When I code I work well, I seem to remember a lot of details, to the point it surprises me.

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OH yeah. Coming up on 40 and I forget so much shit now. I'll forget I watched some movie a year ago, start to re-watch it, and go "wait a minute..." I also make really dumb errors writing that I never, ever used to. Homophone mix-ups and such, even when I know which one's correct, the wrong one goes to my fingers. Omitting words, that kind of thing. Didn't do that ever before 30. I also barely have what they call an…

Isn't this autobiographical memory just another capability of the brain that is simply trained by making use of it? Yes, there are of course medical cases and disorders. But I'd guess a lot of variance just comes from differing individual "training intensity". There must be quite some variance in the average number of times that individual people are triggered/challenged to recall some memories (and process them) in…

I think it’s really just another trait the exists on a bell curve, e.g. one can be tall (right of bell curve’s normal distribution), but have a poor memory (left on bell curve).

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People around me have started really forgetting things, to the point where I've had to remind a co-worker twice in the space of 5 minutes what they were supposed to be doing, or repeating conversations I had with friends a few weeks ago to remind them what we discussed. Myself, I don't have any issues, my recall is pretty decent for most things, such as counting back the meals I've eaten over the past week and with whom. Mind you, I'm the only one who regularly plays computer games, exercises and balances their meals.

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One thing I found out that made me feel much better about my memory is that I have a GREAT memory for things I personally care about. Stuff I don't care about is gone, poof. Oh well, it can always be found later. Names I've always struggled with, that's probably something different. If you're forgetting stuff that doesn't really matter who cares?

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I think this is also related more with the un precedented proliferation of technology in our lives. With land based telephone we used to be pretty comfortable with remembering atleast a few contacts we frequently talked with.. with cellphones I dont think anyone bothers with that any longer. Same with anniversaries and reminders etc.. put it in an app and forget about it. The app will remind you when its time. Proliferation of these devices has led to another proliferation — ad based content and competition for attention. We are consuming just soooo much of content nowadays, the rate of data input has gone through the roof. And most of it is pure junk.. all the news, the tweets, the netflix/prime/Disney content etc that we consume— its probably overwhelming our brains. We are offloading all the important stuff to devices in return for trash that our minds find no value in. I feel this is making our memories more ephemeral and we are slowly moving from ours minds being long term stores of value to short term stores of junk. Its a behavior modification at scale that probably no one realizes is happening

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Around 35 years old I realized I have a nasty soy sensitivity. And as I have become able to rule it out of my life, my memory is becoming fantastic. It makes me wonder what my life could have been if I knew when I was young, but it's all bonus to me. Sorry to brag but it's one of the best things in my life.

I’d love to know what made you notice this, and able to identify soy as the problem. Presumably it was more than just memory issues that tipped you off?

It took me about 10 years, more or less. The first pieces of data were jokes about rushing home with a sour stomach from yet another sushi date night. A scary optical aura and migraine was the event that got me taking notes and ruling things out. I had a huge dose of soy and my vision kinda went out for 30 minutes. Scary.

If I eat less soy, like say eating someone's homemade bread made with soy vegetable oil (which is the most likely one), I'll get brain fog, and about 5 days later eczema.

Multiple times I have deliberately eaten soy and logged the effects. I'm about 90% confident it's soy at this point. I'm a skeptic and still feel it could be some other factor but I am highly confident.

Avoiding soy is difficult. Especially for someone that loves chocolate.

Re: Ask HN: Is your memory as bad as mine?

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I'm about your age now. I had great working memory when I was younger. I can tell mine's has gotten significantly worse since my late 30s over what seems like a gradual decline. Part of that is age. Part of that is that I have dependents and a lot less sleep. I expect mine's to continue declining. Because of these experiences, I definitely appreciate my father more now than when I was a teen. I remembered that he was a lot more careful, mindful, and thoughtful in decisions and actions, whereas I was impatient with what I knew was the right answer (despite that, much of the time, it had more to do with memory).

I've been taking Lion's Mane (mushroom) and Omega-3 EHA+DHA as supplements to help with this. Keep in mind that the value of Lion's Mane is the long-term effect from taking it daily, and that one overdose symptom of Omega-3 DHA is insomnia. I'd really would rather not take caffeine, though the few times I do, I notice that thoughts referencing memories are able to connect better.

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People around me have started really forgetting things, to the point where I've had to remind a co-worker twice in the space of 5 minutes what they were supposed to be doing, or repeating conversations I had with friends a few weeks ago to remind them what we discussed. Myself, I don't have any issues, my recall is pretty decent for most things, such as counting back the meals I've eaten over the past week and with w…

What kinds of games do you play?
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