Concrete data point: My neighbor (a German) moved to the East Coast a year ago (for wife’s job) and has zero intention of moving back (they have bought a house). Obviously lots of details; they are in academia, have an 8yo, were most recently in the UK, etc. But they have their skin in the game and made choose USA.
> they are in academia, Makes me wonder if they draw a lucky ticket like tenure. Because for most cases, the opposite would make more sense.
Especially well-played to move to the US as soon as the kid is old enough to no longer need special medical care or a daycare.