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Re: Ask HN: What was a book that changed your life?

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Blink by Malcolm Gladwell. I have not received a ticket for a driving infraction since.

I've read the book many years ago but can't make the connection - could you explain?

In the book, Gladwell examined how police officers made decisions. He looked at multiple scenarios and broke them down into thin slice moments. I’ve been pulled over seven times since reading that book. I know better about what the police officer may be anticipating , and more about their training. So when they approached my vehicle I watch their body language very carefully, and I remain “as calm as a Hindu cow.” For whatever reason, being extremely calm, and saying nothing unless I’m asked the question, throws them off so much that you can see this doubt come across their face. Like, did I pull the right car over? Did I read that wrong? Basically, teaching me to be extremely aware of the police officers behavior and body language has helped me positively navigate seven traffic stops

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how did you make it through all the lobster metaphors. Does it get better as you progress ?

not OP but I do wish that the lobster metaphor was the worst part of the book. I think Petereson is a great speaker and he makes interesting points but his writing drags on and on. I could hardly finish the 12 rules of life, although I thoroughly enjoyed his lectures and interviews.

absolutely same here. I also enjoy his interviews and perspective but i really couldn't go beyond the first chapter. I guess I'm not that patient :)

Re: Ask HN: What was a book that changed your life?

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"Thinking fast and Slow". It took around four and a half months to read it. I got the answers to some of the great mysteries related to human behavior. For example, - Why don't good people keep their promises? - Why do people don't change their miserable life when their actions could change many things? - Why does charisma trump intelligence in most of the debates? - Why is it hard to change a habit? - Why do people judge so quickly.

It had a profound impact on me. After reading that book, I stopped trying to be silent when I was feeling angry. I invested in my relationships with family and friends a lot. I realized the biggest problem in the Tech industry is not the technology but the people. I became empathetic to introverted people.

Re: Ask HN: What was a book that changed your life?

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Books that have changed my life: Masters of Deception: The Gang That Ruled Cyberspace Illuminatus Trilogy Neuromancer

No Cuckoos Egg????

This one scratched that itch:

CYBERPUNK: Outlaws and Hackers on the Computer Frontier

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