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> But sometimes they really get your nerves when they cry non-stop for half an hour. For no apparent reason ... sigh Are you using any resources that you'd care to share?
Develop a checklist of stuff to try: 1. Does the diaper need changing? 2. Does the baby want a diaper? 3. Does the baby want to be held? 4. Maybe some clothing is uncomfortable for it? 5. Does the baby need to be burped? 6. etc. Walk through the list until something works or until the baby + you pass out. If you spend 2-5 minutes on each item it'll take maybe 20-30 minutes to go through it. If it doesn't work the fir…
I agree, it's good to memorize or even write down these things. Over time, one learns to move quickly through that list, and which items are more likely at what time.
(RE 8. it's easy to worry so much about the baby having it warm that you end up overheating it.)